I've been with my boyfriend for about 4 weeks now.We go to school together and have been acquaintances for about 6 months before we got together.I trasfered to a new school (which he atteds) this semester and the first friend I made there was this guy named Joey.My bf Eli didn't have a problem with Joey before he started dating me but then when he realized Joey had feelings for me and that I had become best friends with him he started causing problems.He was always really jealous of Joey hanging out with me to the point where him and 2 of his friends shived him into the boys bathroom to warn him to stay away from me and he did.What is his problem?He knows I don't feel that way about Joey and that he can trust me.
2006-11-13 17:14:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like this guy has a real trust issue.a bit on the controlling side, it's one thing to express his concern over your relationship with the "friend" with you, but to what he did crosses the line...might be an early sign of an abusive person..sounds like you are still young high school/college....say goodbye and move on
you've lots of time left
2006-11-13 17:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by figgy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels quite insecure and is jeolous. Perhaps he loves you a lot and fears of losing you. Reassure him.... hang out a bit more with him. Show him that you and Joey are only frinds. Give Eli some more affections. Tell him that if he really loves you, he should also know to trust you. By the way, what do you feel? With whom are you really in love with?
2006-11-13 17:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Wild_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose that chump, & lose him now. He goes behind your back & threatens your friends?!? Are you kidding? When is he going to turn on you? He not only doesn't trust you, he has absolutely no respect for you either.
He's a jealous, maniacle thug. Dump him, & don't waste another minute about it either.
Sorry, I know I'm telling you what to do, like you are a helpless child, but I am having very strong feelings about this.
He's a loser, he proved that by roughing up, & terrorizing your friend, & you deserve better than that.
2006-11-13 17:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your bf cant get over the fact that you have a guy friend then get rid of him. Tell joey to talk to him and let him know that he isnt trying to steal you from him, or is he? You all need to sit down and talk about the situation. And if nothing works then get rid of him.
2006-11-13 17:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by minz_8104 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys just get a little jealous trust me its a guy thing but im sure what would make your boyfriend feel better is just reassure him all the time that his just a friend and if that doesnt work think about whats more important is this friend of yours worth loosing your boyfriend of pissing him off? good luck with this situation
2006-11-13 17:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to try to be a little more understanding. In his past he might have been cheated on so he is insecure. Assure him that he has nothing to worry about and hopefully he will back of a little.
2006-11-13 17:19:06 · answer #6 · answered by Crystal J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jealous and insecure...
2006-11-13 17:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋