Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

My boyfriend was in a very long relationship before he met me a year later. He dated her for 7 years, she cheated on him, and would have tantrums, verbally abuse him, cut her self and attempt suicide. But she was also his first long term relationship (and love), and from what I gather highly intellegent, somewhat creative, and a lively person. Although he doesn't the full extent of this, I am an unbearably jealous person, and he has even CALLED ME BY HER NAME IN FRONT OF THEIR MUTUAL FRIENDS. To make matters worse, I am much younger (and I suppose, I feel inferior). I can't shake the feeling that he will never get over her, because I think he keeps photos of her around without me knowing, he barely mentions her but I feel like he is hiding something. I care about him, but there is this underlying feeling of distance, and it makes me really sad. When he communicates with her, he doesn't tell me either. PLEASE HELP.

2006-11-13 18:46:20 · 14 answers · asked by vigidis_spinning 1 in Singles & Dating

Looking for a Dominant women. I like to be obedient to a woman , no not that sexual thingy ,I just happen to believed in listening to women and adapt to her believes and ways and do as what she says, even if it means cooking, laundry etc etc and I do have very stable income.I want a firm women who knows how to put her foot down. I am loyal to her ONLY. Financially I am very stable I am not a bum and would also provide financial supports I am not ugly I like to look good, I do exercise healthy and willing to do anything for a dominant women and I am well read. Any female interested do email me. Ask any Questions or further details spacebound909@yahoo.com



Some of you ask me questions but your profile doesnt allow me to email you, so I suggest you email me. I am in my early 30s. Looking for females below 50 of age and above 18 of course.

2006-11-13 18:45:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for me it was when I was with this girl who I thought was of the same spirituality as me but she was only fronting. It was my fault for believing her but she set me back. The devil introduced us and I'm gonna get him back for that. GRRRRR

2006-11-13 18:44:50 · 10 answers · asked by The Drake 2 in Singles & Dating

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails...."

2006-11-13 18:42:32 · 14 answers · asked by John T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many other minorities experience this. Usually, I'm pretty good with opening lines, and not afraid of rejection.

2006-11-13 18:42:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you are in a relationship and love each other very much, but don't share the same/similar fundamental values and principles (not TOTALLY different), is there any chance the relationship can go long-term? (e.g: he prioritises self-achievement and you prioritise family)

2006-11-13 18:40:19 · 6 answers · asked by yve117 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my bf but I just feel overwhelmed with jealousy and bitterness all the time? Should I just dump him?

2006-11-13 18:39:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 18:38:53 · 10 answers · asked by fanatic000 4 in Family

He sayed He likes me as a frind but my frinds say he likes me more than that who should i believe?

2006-11-13 18:37:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've been in a very stable, happy relationship for over 3 years. My boyfriend and I have talked about marriage frequently, and feel that our relationship is quite stable.

I am 21, he is 27. We are both full-time students and work part-time jobs, and jointly own a dog together. We won't join the full time work force for another two years or so, but help eachother balance our finances among other things.

I don't want to move in together (though we are almost always together) until we get engaged. Is it really just a combo of relationship and financial stability, since money is the #1 cause of divorce? I don't want to date for seven years, but I don't want to rush things. Any advice?

2006-11-13 18:37:28 · 5 answers · asked by rocksnobb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-13 18:37:06 · 8 answers · asked by ninegoingontwentynine 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

After I told him I liked him, he saw me later on and said "I need to talk to you" but he was smiling...so was that a good sign or a bad sign? I want to be ready for whatever he has planned for me.

2006-11-13 18:36:34 · 2 answers · asked by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3 in Singles & Dating

boys ...if you dated a girl for 3 years and broke up with her because of fighting and because you saw each other all the time and got tired of things and started fighting alot so you decided to end things...but you still talk and are somewhat friends..


if one day a girl says "im having a party i would like to invite you" if you arrive and saw something beautiful and romantic with just her there laying..and there really was no party..the party was to suprise you...would you stay or run??

2006-11-13 18:34:00 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What does that mean??

2006-11-13 18:34:00 · 1 answers · asked by Lynnie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 18:33:38 · 9 answers · asked by dee 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to tell my friend i like him. but i cant get the nevre ,help me.
I'm crazy for this guy and I thought he liked me last year but this year he is not as flirty. But i still like him, we have been friends for two and a half years.

How should i tell him.

2006-11-13 18:33:22 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i were together for 6 months and then he dumped me over the summer because life was getting stressful for him and he just felt he needed to be alone so that he could deal with everything that was going on. When school started up again, he asked that i take him back. I agreed to, but after a month he dumped me again because he said he was too busy and he knew if we were together that he wouldnt invest as much as i was and it wouldnt be fair to me. For a while we were still seeing each other and messing around, but recently i've stopped talking to him and seeing him. He hasnt tried to contact me or anything. Do you guys think he feels bad at all for dumping me? I mean this was someone who supposedly cared for me so much and regretted dumping me the first time, and when i asked him if his feelings had changed for me (when he wanted to break up the second time) he said that they hadnt changed but that he was just busy and not in relationship mode. so what do u guys think?

2006-11-13 18:33:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with working with sb for 4 years and recently, I have been thinking so much about him that I think I have fallen in love with him. But he is 15 years older and worst he has a wife!! To complicate thing, I have a decent boyfriend that treats me so well. I think that sb knew how I felt and so do I. We both have not really started anything but the feelings is quite strong and worrying.... but can't help it.
This sounds stupid I know but how should I stop thinking of him? People said out of sight out of mind but not quite the same with me... I felt so guilty..... Am I really fallen in love or am I looking for adventure? Need advice

2006-11-13 18:33:01 · 6 answers · asked by lullaby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

boys ...if you dated a girl for 3 years and broke up with her because of fighting and because you saw each other all the time and got tired of things and started fighting alot so you decided to end things...but you still talk and are somewhat friends..


if one day a girl says "im having a party i would like to invite you" if you arrive and saw something beautiful and romantic with just her there laying..and there really was no party..the party was to suprise you for one last night....would you stay or run??

2006-11-13 18:31:53 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend who's making some majorly bad decisions right now. I won't get into too many details, but let's just say she's with this guy whos already cheated on her numerous times and now he's getting her to do all kinds of drugs. How can I talk to her about all this without her getting mad? I want to help her before she does something she really regrets.

2006-11-13 18:31:25 · 6 answers · asked by Hippie Chick 2 in Friends

I'm from the LA area, going to predominantly white college. Is there something that can make or break a white-mexican relationship?

2006-11-13 18:28:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 18:26:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

please help!!!!!

2006-11-13 18:26:13 · 14 answers · asked by matt v 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 18:25:39 · 21 answers · asked by elnakriel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We need a cell phone so I told him when I get off at 2am that we go to the store and buy one. So when he comes to my job to bring me my lunch he told me that he went to the store to get more info on the phone we were going to buy. well I checked his email ( like he asked me to do) and found out he all ready bought a phone. so my question is should I mess with him and tell him that I decided we don't need a cell phone after all and see what he does? I am kinda mad about this because he went behind my back and did this after we talked about and decided what and when we do whatever we were going to do it. someone answer this asap I get off in like 40 min!!

2006-11-13 18:25:10 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-13 18:25:08 · 22 answers · asked by premrox 1 in Singles & Dating

for highschool senior boys.

when he talks to you and stares into your eyes thats a good thing what other things should i look for?

2006-11-13 18:23:48 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

just wandering cause i cant tell if my baby is a boy or girl

2006-11-13 18:22:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want a man who is honest, trustworthy...a man, who i can talk to for hours or just sit comfortably in silence. Somebody to share my dreams and aspirations in life.

2006-11-13 18:19:30 · 17 answers · asked by ayumi 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it that they feel unworthy of someone that has so much money?
I'm just like other men, I just happen to be Rich Rich RICH!!!!
You'd think that women would LOVE it, but it scares them away?
I don't get it?

2006-11-13 18:18:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating