Is it that they feel unworthy of someone that has so much money?
I'm just like other men, I just happen to be Rich Rich RICH!!!!
You'd think that women would LOVE it, but it scares them away?
I don't get it?
2006-11-13 18:18:14 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awe c'mon, your not rich! if you were rich,why do you want to live in the bush with the bugs and bears in a van? how come you get fired at xmas parties all the time and then ask how do you keep your job? then you complain about the dominatrix that ripped you off big time! it just dont add up :)
2006-11-13 20:40:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe because not many young guys who are rich have actually worked for it,there parents,or grandparents have so they wouldve been born into wealth,and alot of people like that are snobby and arrogant (ones ive come across anyway) and thats off putting.Guys that have won money/earnt it theirselves may think money is a substitute for attention etc,or they might work all the time and not see their gfs enough.But anyway,if you use money to attract girls you'll end up with a girl that just wants your money,so you cant expect a decent relationship.
2006-11-14 16:35:38 · answer #2 · answered by emnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally can't speak for other women, but I do know that I don't have a problem dating rich men. I do have a problem if they try to impress me with their money.
I had one man who wanted to buy me a $600 jacket. I said no thanks I have all the jackets that I need. He was trying to impress me with his millions. He was looking for a house to buy. We viewed a $2,000,000 house. I was not impressed.
Another multi millionair called me his arm candy and he liked to go on trips in his Red sports car, which he constantly reminded me how much he had paid for it. He made a big deal about carrying a wad of cash. He loved his money more than he could love any woman.
I don't scare easy. I just want a man who is deeper than his pockets.
Do you define yourself by your riches? Do you show a woman that you are interested in helping others? Do you share the core of you? Your spirit your soul?
2006-11-14 02:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Is because a RICH GUY like you will not give us "secure relationship". A change of heart is just like changing of sport cars, clothes, etc in your own RICH world. Only those who interested in your Money will stick close to you. Anyway hope u can find your true love soon. Good luck!
2006-11-14 02:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are materialistic. Money is a wonderful thing but it is not the whole package. It only wraps around a package. The man behind the money has to be kind, sincere, caring and not using his money as bait to try to attract women. From the question you asked, it sounds like you are putting all women in one category, the buyable one.
2006-11-14 05:00:28 · answer #5 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 and come from a very wealthy family. like multi millions and i know where you're coming from. I always feel like im being
"gamed" everywhere i go... and the girls that reject me always come back to me after like 2 weeks of me not talking to them after i hit on them. I think when women find out a guy is rich, she does everything in her power to NOT talk about his $ or downsize his wealth... like if i say "I got 6 cars + 4 houses" she'll be like "ok" whereas all my guy friends would talk about it and stuff.
2006-11-14 02:26:27 · answer #6 · answered by private0909 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women don't have a problem dating a millionaire. Where did you get your money? If you earned it, you are probably very nice, capable, sincere and trustworthy. If the money was given to you, you might be self-centered, lazy, ego-centric and full of yourself. Just depends upon who you are, how you feel about yourself and how important the money is to you...are you selfish?
2006-11-14 02:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by LuckyEddie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be that you let the other party know of your financial standing, and you thought that that could be an irresistible attribute. And some of your dates could be uncomfortable with that - because it could be akin to you dangling that as a carrot for them.
Even if some do fall for it, it may not be the kind of relationship you want - that of "barter trade" (money for love).
If you were to be penniless, try to determine what other attributes that you have that will appeal to the opposite sex.
2006-11-14 02:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by dreamofyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say for sure, I am neither a woman nor a millionaire. Maybe they've watched alot of movies like Indecent Proposal and were spooked. Or maybe they would rather date someone they can relate to in terms of a similar background.
2006-11-14 02:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Guerrilla M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this: How do they KNOW you're wealthy? Do you TELL or SHOW them this on first dates or conversations?
Most of us are not as fortunate as you are: to be able to enjoy financial freedom, luxuries, and a world most DREAM of living. Your lifestyle may be staggering for her to conceive; thus making her feel a bit uncomfortable with you.
If you are displaying a lot of wealth initially, ask yourself if you are attempting to BUY her affections. Well, let me tell you this, sir, most women, real women that is, are not interested in material wealth. The gold diggers and playas usually are.
REAL women are interested in the MAN - how he makes her FEEL - how attentive he is to HER emotional needs... and things like that. There are COUNTLESS cases of women choosing to be with the "poor" man over the "rich" one... That should NEVER be an issue.
My advice is for you to use your wealth to enhance your EMOTIONAL commitment to the woman of your dreams; NOT to introduce her to who you are.
In the end, she may appreciate your wealthy status, but will value the MAN YOU ARE much much more.
Thanks for writing, my friend. Good Luck to you!
2006-11-14 02:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by GMarieP 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋