I'm going to tell my friend i like him. but i cant get the nevre ,help me.
I'm crazy for this guy and I thought he liked me last year but this year he is not as flirty. But i still like him, we have been friends for two and a half years.
How should i tell him.
2006-11-13 18:33:22 · 10 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys accept things well straight up. If you get too emotional and explanitory while telling him you may freak him out. Just let him know straight up...I'f hes interested...he'll let you know. If he isnt, im sure not too much will change
2006-11-13 18:36:21 · answer #1 · answered by Snolan860 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I'm in the same boat.
I like this guy for like 10 months now and he's a good friend. We constantly flirt and still i can't get the nerve to tell him. The thing is we fear rejection or humiliation not to mention the possibility of losing a good friend.
What I would suggest (and i'm taking my own advice) is for you to wait it out a bit more. Just spend time with him and see how he reacts towards you, is he flirting with just you or is he just a really friendly guy that's like that with other people too? It's possible he likes you too but he's also scared of rejection and so he sends signals. Unfortunately, we're not mind readers and cannot be certain of how other people feel.
Spend some more time with him and see how's he like with just the two of you together. Usually, body language speaks volumes about how we actually feel inside.
Good luck!
2006-11-14 02:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by julsgene 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try the old dinner excuse..... Or ask him im for a coffee at the end of a night out.....
Then have 1 or 2 bottles of wine instead on ur sofa...
If he does fancy you, you two are probably ending up having sex on the floor on that same night.
Good luck, xx Andy
2006-11-14 04:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by andylondon2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that you are interested in someone else. See if he gets jealous. This will generate in him feelings of desire for you and a recognition of those traits of yours that he wants to have exclusively for himself.
After a week or two tell him you're over that guy and want him.
2006-11-14 02:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, directly but without being really in-your-face. I know it's hard, I asked my best friend out, but it's worth it. Having that kind of friendship *before* you start dating really helps with having a loving and stable relationship.
2006-11-14 02:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by MikEnigma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before u tell him that u likes him...pls be prepared that he will reject and say he treats you just like a friend. So ask yourself can you take it and scare him away ?
2006-11-14 02:50:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sunflower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a card ti him.
2006-11-14 02:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard...something like that is happening to me too...i too need help...lol...im still waiting for him but am scared his feelings will go...
2006-11-14 02:36:29 · answer #8 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
*sigh*
just tell him already!!! be straightforward. guys hate it when girls beat around the bush about these things.... I would know...
2006-11-14 02:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i like you too ;]
2006-11-14 02:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋