boys ...if you dated a girl for 3 years and broke up with her because of fighting and because you saw each other all the time and got tired of things and started fighting alot so you decided to end things...but you still talk and are somewhat friends..
if one day a girl says "im having a party i would like to invite you" if you arrive and saw something beautiful and romantic with just her there laying..and there really was no party..the party was to suprise you for one last night....would you stay or run??
2006-11-13 18:31:53 · 7 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay for sure... the first paragraph applies to me, btw.
2006-11-13 18:35:37 · answer #1 · answered by ftz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'll probably stay, but Sweetie, if this is what you're planning, I say: "Stop it right there!!" The only good it can bring you -both of you- is regret and more pain. I know you still miss him, and he probably misses you too, but doing this will not make it any better.
I know, because I contemplated it myself once, a long long time ago. No, my dear, don't do it. It's not worth living in the past. If you want to, keep him as a friend, the way you are now, but move on. Or else you're going to waste away your life with could've, would've, should've...
2006-11-14 02:42:38 · answer #2 · answered by Heloise South Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I assume the girl is his ex GF,,,
I would stay but wouldn't have sex,,, I would like to spend time with an old friend,,, Sex would say I'm interested in getting back with her,,, just to sit and hold her and talk the night away would reinforce that we were friends and I would be there for you ,,,, If I left that would be saying
1. I don't want to get back together, (and don't have the resolve to NOT have sex with you) or 2. I felt it was a trick just to lure me back with sex.
2006-11-14 02:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He'd be a fool to run - this girl truly loves him.
I guess it's going to depend on where his heads at: does he see it as some goofy ploy, or does he understand that regardless of the fighting, underneath it lies something true and priceless.
tell him what he means to you.
md
2006-11-14 02:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by advocacy_nw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay. If its romantic and beautiful, why not take a shot? it might work better this time.
2006-11-14 02:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by carloveits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys will stay . . . and later regret it.
The only good it could do for either paryt would be if it was some sort of revenge sex - a here's what you'll be missing type of thing.
2006-11-14 02:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay
2006-11-14 02:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋