My girlfriend and I have been together now 2 years and a few weeks. Before we leave each other for mostly everything we tell each other we love each other. Lately, she's been nagging a lot about me just beind flirty and "not giving her enough attention". She started to really confused me a few weeks ago and I just havn't loved her too much since. I don't know if I wanna break up or just stay in the relationship. I never want to be with her anymore really either. What should I do?
2006-11-13 16:47:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2years is when this stuff happens all the time. you either go to the next level or move on so as not to lead anyone on for longer than need be. Sounds like she may be thinking similar thoughts to you. First have a long hard think about what you really want and then talk to her and talk to her some more and some more communication is very important whether you guys go on or even if you leave it for a while......... communicate!! Good Luck and what ever the outcome remember no regrets!!
2006-11-13 16:55:00 · answer #1 · answered by bentomsun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it may depend on age. If she's really nagging you, tell her it's been getting to you. If your feelings are drifting, you can either break up, or tell her that. Maybe you can ask a trustworthy friend to ask her why she's been getting an attitude. Listen to your heart. Not too long ago I broke up with my bf after 2 yrs and it took awhile to get over him, maybe 3-4 months. Talk to her, or maybe see what other fish you can find in the sea. Do what you think is best. Good Luck. :-)
2006-11-14 00:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by Artsy 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women wants alot of attention. That's what keeps us feeling good about ourselves. Remember what attracted you to her. What does she do to make you feel special. What is your 5 year goal and is she in it? You both need to sit down at dinner and ask eachother what your goal is for the next 5 years. Why are you counting weeks?
2006-11-14 00:56:05 · answer #3 · answered by MissRoyalT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recommend just telling her in a nice drawn out conversation that you are no longer feeling the love... do it in a public place where you both feel comfortable and do not start out the conversation by saying "honey we need to talk" that always ends badly.
2006-11-14 00:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by eck_03 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls need to be reminded that you love them all the time.... most of them feel that this type of relationships should always be in our minds... on the other hand, guys neglect this idea because they thought that loving is enough already..... but please... girls needs some boquet of flowers or a stuff toy or a text message that you love them... they are very POSSESSIVE!!!! So try to be considerate... okay?
2006-11-14 00:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't see it going anywhere you don't need to drag her on. You need to break it off if that is what feels best to you and try to remain friends if you really like her.
2006-11-14 00:49:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start ignoring her instead of breaking her heart! Or You can say that your gay!
2006-11-14 00:50:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU DON'T LOVE AFTER TWO YEARS THEN I DON'T THINK YOU WILL EVER.MAYBE YOU TWO MAY NEED TO SPLIT UP FOR AWHILE AND THEN YOU CAN SEE IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER OR NOT.GOOD LUCK
2006-11-14 00:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by triftynickel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you want to leave her... then just do it and don't waste time.
2006-11-14 00:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋