I know thissounds like a stupid kid crush thing but I really like him, My parents say I am Naive (don't know how to spell it) kid who has a lot to learn and I know I do but considering that this was their advice i am coming to the wonderful yahoo peoples what do you think i should do? Wait and see if he likes me? Make a move or forget about it?
2006-11-13 15:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by carivala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl, listen, dont waste your time on guys who dont like you as much as you like them... youre young and youll meet a hell lot of guys who would like you more than you like em... so its better if you just wait for the right guy... he aint the one if he couldn't see you the way you see him.
2006-11-13 16:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by killerweed_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't make someone like you and if you know that he isn't crazy about you then you should move on. If you give it some time - while you're out exploring OTHER options - maybe he might change his mind. If he doesn't, I'd be willing to bet that you find someone else that you like even better, that also likes you just as much. I'm sure that there is another guy right around the corner that thinks you are the one for him...and you'll probably forget all about this one.
2006-11-13 23:58:20 · answer #2 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So how could he not be crazy about you? Your parents are right about one thing--but perhaps not what you think. What you have to learn--and then remember, always, is that those people in your life who pass through and don't notice you, don't really see you, or don't appreciate you are missing out. Because you do not need the approval of someone who is not paying attention in life. You will know that you are a delightful, wonderful, beautiful person that could bring so much to the lives of everyone--but because some people don't deserve it, will only bless those who stop to notice and pay attention. The only move you need to make is to stand up, put your chin up and your eyes ahead and walk past him. If he pays attention before you get out the door, he will be a lucky guy. If he does not--his loss. There is someone out ther who WILL notice and will know its worth his time to make you happy.
2006-11-14 00:03:42 · answer #3 · answered by Stuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys still don't like girls to come on to them. Guys still like to call all the shots. Don't let him know any of your feelings until you get a signal from him, and don't tell any more than you are told,---- it gives him way too much power, and hon, that's a bad thing. Go out with lots of people, and the best thing I can tell you is don't get pregnant, not now, not until you are in a solid marriage. Don't screw around!!!!! (and you know what I mean!!!) and think a pregnancy won't happen to you --- it will. So, advise? Don't make any moves, always be friendly, don't soil your reputation, go out with lots of people, be friendly to everyone.
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2006-11-13 23:57:17 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I'm always sorry to hear about this kind of thing. Believe me, we've ALL been there. If you have no reason to believe that he's interested in you, then just move on. The more you dwell on this one, the more it's going to eat at you. (And eat at you and eat at you, etc.) This is going to happen to you more than once in your life, BELIEVE ME. Just keep your chin up. There are TONS of guys out there, and one of these days, you will like one that will then like YOU back! Just chalk this kind of thing up to "one of those things" that happen in life. Good luck to you in the future!
2006-11-13 23:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He need not to be crazy about you! Just see if he so caring, gentleman, give your needs emotionally, mentally, physically, even sexually... Have trust.. If he'll cheat you then thats the time youare going to dump him... Be sweet and loving to him too. Love begets love.
2006-11-14 00:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a move. That's the only way you will know for sure.
2006-11-13 23:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by fatt_bottom_girl2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wait and see if he likes you. You seem to be sure that he's not crazy about you? Have you approached him yourself?
2006-11-13 23:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Charles C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO LISTEN TO YOUR PARENTS, THEY ARE
RIGHT ABOUT THIS ONE. YOU CANT MAKE SOMEONE
LOVE WHEN THEY DONT. TIME TO MOVE ON AND FIND
SOMEONE THAT FEEL THE SAME AS YOU DO, OTHER
WISE YOU WILL BE THE ONE THAT HURT.
2006-11-13 23:55:09 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "He's just not that into you" it will answer every question and make you love yourself.
2006-11-13 23:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by Deg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋