so yeah my bf and i have been together for like 4 years... and i have really been thinking of having a threesome with him... he has always wanted to see me with another female, i dont think i would mind doing it. i wouldnt be unfomfy about the situation my question would really be would it change our relationship.. having another female in the picture??? hummm... help me yalll thanks
2006-11-13 15:53:04 · 10 answers · asked by Zoe W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are playing with fire! The only way a threesome works is if no one has feelings for anyone else involved. Jealousy always ruins it and most couples break-up.
2006-11-13 15:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that only you can truly answer. Does the thought of sharing him with another woman really appeal to you? Every guy fantasizes about a threesome, but it doesn't mean that it needs to come true for him to be sexually fulfilled.
Having a threesome is an event that could redefine your relationship with him, & once you cross that bridge there will be no turning back.
2006-11-14 00:02:11 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The short answer is, yes, it will change your relationship. The next obvious question is: "How will it change the relationship."
That is not so simple to answer. Some men get "addicted" to the feeling and want one all the time. Sometimes you seeing him with another woman makes you realize he's not all that great. Sometimes being able to see how he reacts and how he does things makes you able to respond better to what he does and makes it all that much better.
2006-11-16 10:28:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It most probably will. Especially if it's a female either or both of you are emotionally attached to.
I think you need to ask yourself if that's what you truly want, or if it's what he's convinced you that you might enjoy. Be careful of what your relationship is looking like if he's not satisfied by you alone.
2006-11-13 23:56:28 · answer #4 · answered by Link 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on how you approach it. A threesome can be fun. If you and your bf know what you want and what you expect out of this then it could be a great experience.
2006-11-13 23:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will change your relationship, trust me!! It might sound fun in fantasy, but in reality its not as fun, not to mention immoral!!
2006-11-13 23:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by veronica c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it can. if you do it, make sure it's with a stranger or someone you won't have to see regularly. it will help ease doubts when all is said and done.
2006-11-13 23:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Baby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you are comfortable with it go for it as long as you think you can trust him
2006-11-13 23:55:37 · answer #8 · answered by amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl if you mean being "being" with a girl then you are a freck and will be a gay one too!
2006-11-14 00:01:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you want to do it you might be bi sexual
2006-11-13 23:56:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋