Family & Relationships - 13 November 2006

I’m dating a guy I know for several years. He was a great friend, we started going out as friends, had a great time. He told me about his girlfriend and how he cheated on her. He is one of the people who are great friends but not boyfriends, and he is wild. One day we met for happy hours, end up having too many martinis and kissed, next I know he broke up with his girlfriend. Now we are dating. He swears he has changed and would never do anything to hurt me. He told me that he wants to be with me forever, and has liked me all the years. He is 28. It’s been one month. Should I trust him? Do people change?

2006-11-13 14:41:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 14:41:39 · 25 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Weddings

and how do you find out if they like you back or not?

2006-11-13 14:41:23 · 5 answers · asked by ames 3 in Singles & Dating

Text message convo with my ex-boyfriend (X = ex boyfriend, M = me):
X: Hey hottie
M: Hi how was your weekend?
X: Ha um it was ok i had a baseball tournament the whole week so i'm sore. You?
M: It was kinda boring but ok. Yeah I'm sore too.
X: Haha why you sore? Finally someone took your v-card lol.
M: I had conditioning and you have a one track mind huh?
X: Haha no i just like to bug you about it... I don't even really do that kinda stuff anymore =)
M: You don't? Kinda surprising but what changed that
X: Haha um idk i'm not too worried about girls and sex i mean i am lol but thats behind school and and sports
M: Mm I see. So school's better?
X: Yeah way better... But i wish i still had that one thing that i loved so much.
M:Thats good. Whats the one thing?
X: You =)
M: Lol do you really mean that? I find that hard to believe
X: Of course i do i actually really liked you but u had to **** things up

2006-11-13 14:40:42 · 9 answers · asked by babyrooster 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 14:40:33 · 57 answers · asked by dylan 1 in Singles & Dating

Sooo I kinna like this guy named shane but Ive known him practically forever and im jus now realizin that i like him but he goes to a different skool han i do this year and well hes meetin new ppl and iam to but he says that he likes this gurl jordyn but when he sees me we'll jus give each other big long hugs like we never want to let go and we'll jus kinna stare at each other for along time. Is he jus tryin to make me jealous by sayin that he likes this gurl or does he really like her? Should I do it back to him or just leave it as friends. Im soo confused!

2006-11-13 14:39:03 · 7 answers · asked by Lefty 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok this ones tough for me. My fiance and I just bought a house and her mom won't leave us alone. She calls her all the time and takes up my time with her. She tries to invite herself over to our house. I told her she has no business coming over to our house unless we want her to. Then she got smart and had an atitude with me and said she was just worried about her daughter because she was pregnant and she didn't need to be there alone while im at work. I told her thats what a phones for. My fiance told her some stuff but I think she's scared of hurting her moms feelings. She is not coming to our house as much but how do I get her out of my hair? I know she's getting on my fiance's nerves and it makes me stressed and its like it feels like its tearing us apart. My fiance told her we don't need people coming over all the time. she tries to plan things to take my fiance out and go hang out every weekend and thats just too much. I told her to back off and I don't know what else to do.

2006-11-13 14:38:40 · 7 answers · asked by Matthew C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-13 14:38:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this girl have 3 bf but theres one she really love but there are some problems in between which is the family problem

2006-11-13 14:38:25 · 2 answers · asked by may 1 in Singles & Dating

Why would a man stop holding hands, stop showing affection by sitting on the couch w his arm around you= and act like you are not there- unless he wants something? ANd tell his sister he had picked up where he left off- his previous wife died- and his sister told him that he has got to be kidding- I have mentioned the change and does not seem to care- I feel very neglected- he golfs a lot and works very part time- any suggestions-?? I am starved for affection-he is always off doing something to help someone else= D

2006-11-13 14:38:11 · 11 answers · asked by Debby B 6 in Marriage & Divorce

The x couple are still friends but the girl is a control freak who has ordered her friends to not have any contact.

2006-11-13 14:37:47 · 15 answers · asked by Jim V 3 in Singles & Dating

My brother has had unprotected sex with thousands of different women. He says that he is trying to break the world record for the being the father of the most babies. I think that this practice is very disgusting and dangerous. He has had several std's and already has 90 kids that I know of. Is this against the law?? Is there anything that I can do to stop this behavior or should I just mind my own business?

2006-11-13 14:37:46 · 8 answers · asked by flushing06 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Desperate for answers... I live with my partner and our 18 month old son on 2 1/2 acres. My mother-in-law also lives on the property in a separate house. I have lived here for 4 1/2 years and am getting dangerously close to breaking point. I can't stand living here, but cannot leave as i can't separate my son from his dad. We are locked in to the mortgage (with mother-in-law) and i feel so much pressure in keeping the family together, as it all depends on me. If i leave, i break up the family, if i stay, i feel like i'm damaging my health with all this stress. I have to permanently plaster a smile on my face when inside i'm going insane! I want to keep my family together and happy, but i'm in tears every other day trying to figure out to cope with it all, as i don't see an end in sight for atleast another year... Please help!

2006-11-13 14:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by morgainne 1 in Family

i am going to do it, tell me everything and anything i need to know to make it worthwhile. I know you've all got something, cmon now

2006-11-13 14:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by f@nd@ng0 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

seriously..where do older men (30+) hang out at? cause yeah i'm 19 and want to date an older guy who will spoil me..
where do i start looking? and no i don't mean online dating sites! i mean what places can i go

2006-11-13 14:37:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm casually dating a guy who says he doesn't want a relationship right now. He also says he never sleeps with more than one person at a time. I'm confused...isn't that a relationship? Can this casual relationship we have now turn in to something more given time? How much time does it ususally take?

2006-11-13 14:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by Victoria 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you actually take the advice given on here and approach your crush? Because most of the advice on here leads to the same answer...tell your crush you like them. Curious to how many people have done this and how did it turn out?

2006-11-13 14:35:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if i said, trust me, im a liar, how would you interperet that? it hurts my brain. (by the way, i had no idea what catagory to put this into)

2006-11-13 14:34:58 · 21 answers · asked by shoowap 3 in Singles & Dating

My girl friend has been smoking almost all her life, she wants to quit but is having continuous difficulties and frankly, I am loosing patience...
I had severe problems with family stuff because of smoking and her smoking has real emotional impact on me. I am suspicious whenever she is with friends who smoke and I’m not there, I’m constantly stressing about it. She smoked when we first got together but promised she would quit for me and her self, it has been almost two years, there has been a lot of collage, relationship and work stress and I understand that it makes things more difficult but I’m running out of patience, WHAT SHOULD I DO???

2006-11-13 14:34:53 · 11 answers · asked by nitronuke 2 in Singles & Dating

In a public situation, either with a group of friends or in a public place, is it appropriate to confront your significant other when they have done something to hurt you? Or is it best to wait when the two of you are in private?

2006-11-13 14:33:59 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been dating this guy for about 9 monthes now, he's wonderful in every way ... things are great but, i want to act like his girlfriend not just one of the guys

i want to know what do guys really like in a girlfriend ... like, what kind of side of my personallity should i shine ... and like what are the best things a girlfriend can do for you ..

i hope that makes sense. Please just give me some points of a different view

2006-11-13 14:33:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had some people tell me to forget this guy and move on, but the thing is that I can't. Him and I speak on messenger and know each other since childhood. I began to have some feelings for this guy. (We rarely speak on IM), so I asked for advice and some told me that the reason him and I don't speak anymore, is because he found someone else.It's kinda hard to forget someone like him, he keeps coming back into my life. When I plan to forget him, he POPS back into my life. I have no idea what to do. Any suggestions? Does it even seem like he likes me?

2006-11-13 14:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a "nerd". this stuck up, "perfect & popular" girl and i used to be friends. then she decided to start treating me like crap, pushing me around, sending me nasty emails about how um-important i am. after weeks of war, she suddenly deicedes to send me an apology email (i tried to apologize many time, but she would never accept it) saying how big of a mistake she made. i think this was out of guilt and fear of getting in trouble with her parents.
what should i do? she seems to really wanna be my friend, but this is like our 2394536563457867 millionth fight!!!
i don't like how stuck up she is and all her "popular" friends hate my guts!!!

2006-11-13 14:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Friends

I had a problem in the cashier and she was helping me out, I was really distracted looking down. But I could tell she was looking at me. I turned and there she was staring at me. What does it mean?

2006-11-13 14:32:53 · 14 answers · asked by oz D 1 in Singles & Dating

im 13 and i love a guy that is 18 we have known each other now for 4 months. and im head over heals in love.
is this right?
he says that he doesn't want to do anything sexually .
which suits me.
but wen we hug and kiss i feel as nothin else matters.
but i havent told my parents.
i dont think they would agree.
should i still date him or not ?
[x]

2006-11-13 14:32:05 · 40 answers · asked by stacey s 1 in Singles & Dating

IM SURE SOME OF YOU KNOW HEATHER AND SOME OF U DONT BUT YOU SHOULD....SHE IS THE PROUD (28 Year Old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
LOTS OF LOVE AND GOD BLESS;
LIANA

2006-11-13 14:32:00 · 2 answers · asked by myspace junkie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

are better in bed. someone told me this is the case because nerds do nothing but think about sex all day.

2006-11-13 14:30:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm dating a guy, but it seems like I'm the guy in the relationship. Like, I'm always the one to call him or email him and ask to get together and stuff. If I didn't ask to get together, I don't know if he ever would. I know he's interested because I can definitely tell he is interested when we are together, and he is the one who starts trying to kiss me and stuff like that and then he is sad when I have to go. So then why doesn't he email me or call me? He emails me back, but only when I email him first. It's now been about three days since we were in contact last and I'm trying to wait for him to email me this time. What is with him?

2006-11-13 14:29:24 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-13 14:29:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was bad to her,I was also have a kid with her, it been such a bad opurtunity to be in but a few good things happen to me and I thought we were moving foward and now I guess we will always be hopeless,but I hope God will change that.

2006-11-13 14:29:16 · 2 answers · asked by robert p 1 in Singles & Dating