I'm casually dating a guy who says he doesn't want a relationship right now. He also says he never sleeps with more than one person at a time. I'm confused...isn't that a relationship? Can this casual relationship we have now turn in to something more given time? How much time does it ususally take?
2006-11-13 14:36:33 · 14 answers · asked by Victoria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a jerk. Why waste your time dating someone who isn't interested in a relationship, but has sex with people without relationships? No,sleeping with 1 person at a time means nothing. If you keep dating him, eventually you'll want more and he'll say "But I told you I didn't want a relationship!"
2006-11-13 14:39:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
As he is clear on where he is taking this pseudo-relationship that you two have right now ... which basically is "nowhere" ... you should never expect anything out of it.
Unless you are on the same page with him then you might as well go and look for someone who has clearer intentions.
The guy may be great, and he may not be going out with anyone else, but if he says he has no plans of going steady in the near future, then he probably won't. Worst case - he may even get someone to replace you with as you eagerly wait for him to come to his senses.
2006-11-13 14:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by jjerc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes,it is possible that given time, the relationship can grow into something more.
Time is an illusion, and when love is involved,doubly so! Patience is a virtue,we could all learn to have more of.
Might i add a thought provocation? If you are seeing a relationship, and he is not, if you are still hungry, that his answers do not satisfy you, then is it not better to speak honestly and clearly about what you desire from a partner, are your needs being met?
2006-11-13 17:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by jason 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This certainly occurs, particularly for the lady. despite the fact that, he has a woman. usually not precisely a recipe for happy ever after. feels like your fidgeting with fire with this one. attempt to not get merely before your self. If all he needs is intercourse, yet you prefer extra. that's a one way value ticket for a broken heart.
2016-10-17 06:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by kigar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sleeping with him it's a relationship. Stop sleeping with him and see what happens. Don't let him use you...
2006-11-13 14:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dream on ,missy.You are wasting time mooning and moaning for somethinh you will not have.
2006-11-13 14:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe but he may be sleeping with someone else.
2006-11-13 14:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound young and confused, but don't be abused. sex can be fun. but it doesn't mean love!!!! So it's not very serious
2006-11-13 14:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by I'm Sparticus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love your renting your f.Anny out to him. all he wants is sex he's getting his cake and eating it cream and all. tell him to f.uck off and do you know their is a lot of Merritt to the term treat them mean to keep them keen
2006-11-13 14:41:55 · answer #9 · answered by brioduinn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's a start
2006-11-13 14:38:21 · answer #10 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋