I was bad to her,I was also have a kid with her, it been such a bad opurtunity to be in but a few good things happen to me and I thought we were moving foward and now I guess we will always be hopeless,but I hope God will change that.
2006-11-13 14:29:16 · 2 answers · asked by robert p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
robert p : My question to you is this. What if God says "no" to you? Are you going to doubt Him - His existence or even, turn your back on Him? !!! "Thy will be done" ... not, "MY" will be done !!! You say you were bad with her and it's a bad situation to be involved in. Well; we all have a choice when the opportunity exists to do so. Each choice we make in life reaps consequences whether, good or bad. Your focus now, should be on your "kid" ... he or she didn't ask to be brought into your relationship problems. Your child needs LOTS of TIME with you and LOVE from you ... ideally from BOTH of you. You have to always think; "what if she doesn't want anything to do with me, anymore" ? Be prepared for that and don't take it out on your child. Remember; life is choices !!! I wish that I could give you the "total" solution to your problem now - but I can't. You are the one who has to change and only God can do that WITH you. Now; what's your choice in all of this?
2006-11-13 14:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you shall leave her alone and make sure she will miss you if she does not see you for a long time.
2006-11-13 22:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by peterwan1982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋