I am a "nerd". this stuck up, "perfect & popular" girl and i used to be friends. then she decided to start treating me like crap, pushing me around, sending me nasty emails about how um-important i am. after weeks of war, she suddenly deicedes to send me an apology email (i tried to apologize many time, but she would never accept it) saying how big of a mistake she made. i think this was out of guilt and fear of getting in trouble with her parents.
what should i do? she seems to really wanna be my friend, but this is like our 2394536563457867 millionth fight!!!
i don't like how stuck up she is and all her "popular" friends hate my guts!!!
2006-11-13 14:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sounds to me like she only apologized to make her feel better about herself. And pushing you down was also something she did to feel better about herself......... it's all about her. And you say that you don't like her attitude......... that's all it takes to forever give up on friendship with her!
You could answer her email by stating that you would accept her apology ..... if only you were able to believe that she is serious about it. Tell her to face it.......... she did nothing to prove her friendship, and she no longer needs to prove it because you're no longer hoping for her friendship. Oh, and tell her that she does not need to reply, because you're not waiting for her answer either.
Best of luck, I'm sure you will find better friends as soon as you're done with her!
2006-11-13 14:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Endie vB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing, you'll find after high school that the "popular kids" weren't even popular. They only gave themselves the title because they're mostly stuck up spoiled rich kids, who think everyone else fears them. The best thing you can do is go to a teacher or your parents. If this is the 239...or what ever you said fight, then obviously she's not your friend. The things that she has done to you is considered harassment and it is very wrong. She should be confront with the BIG mistake she made.
2006-11-13 22:44:17 · answer #2 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a total cow. This happened to me, except i had nothing to do with her apology. If she thinks she can push your ound and be a nasty b**** then she deserves no sympathy. I say do not have a bar of her apology because all she is trying to do is get people on her side. When people realise what they have done wrong its too late to do anything about it. I say ignore her email. Unless of course you want to be friends, then you need to talk it out with her
2006-11-13 22:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For get about her. She is all about herself and you can find better friends and she will do this to you again. Go find a real friend.Maybe her and her popular friends do not hate your guts, maybe for some reason they envy you. Maybe it is because you take a little pride in yourself and care about others rather then being self centered.
2006-11-13 22:38:45 · answer #4 · answered by shyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be comfortable with who you be friend with.Its doesn't really matter she a popular girl or a nerd.A friend should be someone that you are comfortable with and having fun with.Not to fight with and despise.Plus,just because she want to be your friend,you have be your friend.Why force yourself into something that you don't want and you can say NO to?
2006-11-13 22:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to act nice and be calm. You need to keep cool. Don't ever lose your cool and find out why that popular girl's friend hate you.
2006-11-13 22:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a smart girl, dont fall for another trick shes not worth it!! true friends dont hurt you twice and she has hurt you 239453656 etc times make her win back your trust if you really want to be her friend!!
2006-11-13 22:44:16 · answer #7 · answered by experiencedmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you're not sure if she's actually being sincere about being your friend, untill then she'll have to prove it if you're going to accept her apology.
2006-11-13 22:38:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept her apologie if you want to, but she's not worth taking back as a friend.
Real friends don't treat you like that!
2006-11-13 22:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woa, are you from another country? anywayz, i think u should be like, hey, your a fatass ***** and i hate your slutty, bitchy, shitty, asshole, mother fuker guts. then you ***** slap her, flikp your hair and walk away. you should attract quite a crowd and then possibly you and your friends could become popular, ya rite, no offense, but in your dreams.
2006-11-13 22:45:08 · answer #10 · answered by shoowap 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋