She was brutally cheated on in her last realationship. When she found them sleeping together, she started throwing up, crying, and just went crazy on both the guy and girl. If you were cheating and your girlfriend or boyfriend started doing this....how would you feel? Would you cheat again??
2006-11-13 14:51:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds extreme but sounds like she couldn't handle it happening again. If I was doing the cheating and my boyfriend caught me and reacted this way I don't think I would ever cheat again. To see how badly I hurt that person right in my face would make me never want to hurt another that way again. Take care of your friend.
2006-11-13 14:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont t hink she overreacted. especially, if she really liked him.
Was he her first in bed? sometimes that can emotionally 'scar' someone, to see the first and only person they've been with, with another person.
She could have JUST finishing putting down her barriers with him, and finally trusted him fully, when that happened. it could make someone physcially sick.
When you see something like that, you feel all kinds of things,
Anger, frustration, saddness, lied too, ashamed, flabergasted, manipulated, and morally frustrated.
If she litterly sleeping together, she could have been disgusted, and revolted. Sort of like the idea of walking in on your mom having sex with someone, thta wasn't your father.
It isn't right to cheat, there's no point of being in a relationship, if you're just going to cheat.
I feel she felt the way she did, but i'm possitive the guy wasn't worth it.
The worse part is, is that the girl he was cheating on her with, probably got off on it, and probably kept seeing the guy.
Guys dont change, once a cheater, almost always a cheater.
It makes no sense either, because the girl he was with, and the girl he was using for sex, he didn't care enough about either of them, and quite litterally, both of them are being used like peices of meat, one is a warm body, and the other is emotional support, and sense of stablity. But both were still used.
2006-11-13 15:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by anjui63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they're both cheating so what's there to be angry about? Let it go and move on. There's no use in crying about a lost relationship that neither of them both seem not to want.
2006-11-13 14:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by Callie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel so bad. But I cheated on my ex bf and he didn't do that. But I promissed him that I would never do that to him again and he gave me a 2nd chance but it wasn't long enough it was a 2week 2nd chance. That was my very first time cheating on him.
2006-11-13 14:55:54 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, i think cheating is so stupid...i mean if you dont want to be with some one...BREAK UP WITH THEM..dont cheat on them, it just makes it worse.
She didnt over react, everyone reacts differenly to different situations...
LOTS OF LUCK!
2006-11-13 14:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by Julia C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yea I know she needs to go on in life becuz i been there and she aint gonna want no sorry as ***** no more.. he already cheated on her once. then next hes gonna be back again.. tell her 2 move on and find another b.f. !!
2006-11-13 14:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a scumbag... She over reacted because he wasn't worth all that. I'm glad he showed his true colors... Dump him like yesterday's stinking garbage!!!
2006-11-13 14:55:03 · answer #7 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm to you above it's not fishes it's FISH learn to speak and write you illiterate bastard!
2006-11-13 14:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by hotpinkchica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not, ther are million of fishes in the sea and they are free.
2006-11-13 14:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah,but not with her.
2006-11-13 14:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋