ok...well i was spozed t hang out with this guy and he stood me up . i saw him in school today and he tried to talk to me, but i just kind of stared at him and said "im so mad at you its unbelievable." i am really mad, but i didnt mean to yell at him..but i mean..i got ready and everything and he just didnt show up....and then he acted lie he didnt know y i ws mad...was he really clueless? am i wrong to b mad????
2006-11-13 14:46:56 · 19 answers · asked by Raven S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please dont b fricken rude! u dont even know me! god!
2006-11-13 15:00:56 · update #1
Look, whether he's "clueless", or lying, at least tell him why you're mad. Then, you can be sure that you've done what would be reasonable to him if he really was "clueless". Explain why you were mad, without getting angry. Hard to believe maybe, but he might get mad at you now, because he thinks it's unreasonable for you to get mad at him, then not tell him what you're mad about, because then he can't try to improve himself.
When in doubt, tell the truth.-Mark Twain.
Good luck.
2006-11-13 14:54:52 · answer #1 · answered by Selena S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you had the right to be mad. I mean he stood you up. No guy should ever do that to a girl unless he has a really good reason. On the other hand, he might have been trying to apologize or give you a reason that he stood you up. What you need to do is apologize for being so harsh about yelling at him and see what he has to say.
2006-11-13 14:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by adamwwjd87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and learn to control yourself. Even if you were right, no man wants a drama queen. Anger is the worse seizure. Men take the path of least resistance and yes he may be clueless. Welcome to adulthood. Taking your anger out on someone is wrong. Deal with your anger in a more productive way or you will drive everyone away. Good luck.
2006-11-13 14:52:18 · answer #3 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok to get mad at him. who wouldn't be? all the girls would definitely be furious. but i don't think you should have yelled at him. we always say 'think before you act'. unfortunately you didn't, and now your regretting the action. but it happened already. maybe he does have a valid/crazy reason he didn't make it. why not try to listen to it? then make a decision after hearing his side. he does have a right to be heard.
2006-11-13 14:58:31 · answer #4 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to TALK to him if you really want an answer..however if you just want to be mad dont ask where he was and why he didnt show up...i have a feeling it wont really matter what his reason is and that you just want to be mad about it.
2006-11-13 14:50:09 · answer #5 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl - just shake it off! Don't let him get the best of you - and whatever his reasons maybe for not coming, make him think and feel that he that it's his loss not yours.
2006-11-13 14:50:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, did you bother giving him a chance to give you an explanation as to why he didn't show? It's not HIM who is clueless.
2006-11-13 14:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you are right to be upset...It is not good to lose control of that anger,,,but hey, sho doesn't...It sounds like he is just not that into you...Keep your head up...You deserve someone who is into you!
2006-11-13 14:50:32 · answer #8 · answered by LENNON3804 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you were right...that was messed up of him to do that an u probably were looking forward to it an he didn't show up? that's messed up he deserved it
2006-11-13 14:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not wrong to mad at him he sould not have stood you up.
2006-11-13 14:48:48 · answer #10 · answered by floydsimpalass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋