My boyfriend love to watch porno videos. he like women who had healthy boobs. good long legged-legs. I don't have all those qualities . Sometimes i pity on myself. he likes girls wearin short, and mini skirts. i can't wear those because i don't have good legs. i'm planning to have breast augmentation. just to satisfy him. he teased me . quite insecured. i just do not know if he loves me. help.
2006-11-13 14:52:10 · 9 answers · asked by alone927 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he told me that most of her girlfriends are big boobs, good legs. ok.i admit i was mentally battered by him. we live i thesame roof for a year now.
2006-11-13 15:02:11 · update #1
If you want to do anything to your body... let it be because YOU want it... not because you're tryin' to make someone happy...
As for the way he's acting... though I will admit that I look at pornography as well... I would NEVER think of tryin' to make my girlfriend like the women that are on them... if he truly loved you... it wouldn't matter what you looked like... (in my own opinion)... Though some will argue that looking at porno means you don't love someone... I myself love my fiancee very deeply...
You don't have to be the target of his attacks... nor do you have to subject yourself to those actions... you are beautiful as you are... and if he doesn't see that... look what HE lost...
2006-11-13 14:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by grimmy19812000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! You deserve better. This guy is treating you like dirt. Don't let him disrespect you like that. He is the one causing your low self-esteem. You need to get away from him! You say you live with him...can you live with someone else, family, friend? Put yourself first, and be proud of how you look! Many men out there like a small perky handful...the bigger ones start to go south very soon! LOL! Good luck!
2006-11-13 15:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Breast Augmentation surgery is very safe nowadays. My cousin got her breast reduction, tummy tuck and facelift surgery in India by the company called Forerunners Healthcare .The Price for the surgery she paid in India was very less. She paid 30% of the cost she was quoted in America.
Forerunners Healthcare is very famous in India. They arrange cosmetic and plastic surgery for foreigners in India. I read a lot about them in the Newspapers and about their patient stories. They arrange financing for USA, Canadian, UK and other international patients who plan to have surgery abroad for low price, as the breast reduction, tummy tuck, facelift and other cosmetic surgery is not covered by insurance. They also have photos pasted of their International patients. You can checkout their website. There are huge cost savings. As a doctor I personally believe that surgery can be easily handled in India, as the quality of healthcare available In India is simply best in the world. The surgeons are USA/UK trained and facilities are 5 star.
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Hope this helps.
2006-11-15 20:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by michael 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me be blunt. It is just plain stupid for you to have cosmetic surgery in order to improve his opinion of you. You will be disrepsecting yourself if you do that. If he doesn't love you as you are, dump him and move on.
So what if you don't look like a model! How many women do? You may be a bit insecure, but truthfully, all of us are insecure about something. (You don't want to see me in a swimsuit.)
Learn to love and respect yourself and a man who loves and respects you will soon follow.
2006-11-13 15:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should not undergo any kind of surgery for some one else. This guy sounds like a controlling, selfish, uncouth jerk.
You can have this surgery and he still won't be happy. Dump him and find somebody that appreciates you for you...not for plastic boobs or anyother body parts.
2006-11-13 14:58:34 · answer #5 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
he wouldn't be with you if he didn't love you ,,, and not all legs have to be long to be sexy,, good things come in small pks too .try weraing nylons\stockings always makes legs look sooo sexy. and you can still waer the mini's for him at home .
2006-11-13 15:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Rooster 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't like u the way u are u should leave him why spend money on a jerk who likes fake ****
2006-11-13 14:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by w o 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only do these things if you want , never for someone else .
2006-11-13 15:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
gr8
2006-11-17 08:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by ihateacaf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋