you ladies justify a man's actions. If a man is a complete a s s hole to everybody except YOU. You see him as a Nice & sweet guy with a bad boy image. What is the theroy behind it.
2006-11-13 14:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly we are attracted to bad boys. I think that they make us feel a sense of security, however false. Although most women who are with a "bad boy" say that their guy is "different" with them, they are probably lying. Believe me it is easy to keep up appearances if you really love someone. Also if they keep up with the charade long enough they will convince themselves that what their man is doing is okay, and its not.
2006-11-13 14:24:37 · answer #1 · answered by jasam4ever08 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some girls/women see in the heart of people. They just don't look on the outside. Like the saying says, The eyes are the windows to the soul. Some people will only look on the outside but that shows how snobby they are.
2006-11-13 22:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by christinadc2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm married, but I think I can answer this question. To admit your boyfriend/husband is a jerk or worse is to
a) Admit you made a bad choice
B)Be disloyal to the man you love
C) risk losing the relationship. For many women a bad relationship is better than no relationship at all.
2006-11-13 22:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Searcher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alot of girls that like that type of guy have been mistreated alot, and when someone with that personality type comes along...they feel like their is finally someone in their corner. All they can see is this person loves "me". they are probably at the point in their life when deep down they feel like treating people like s..., but instead they have a "Hero" to do it for them....and by the way, that hero is usually the one with the softer heart, looking to "save" someone, or act Out his superman fantasies.
2006-11-14 00:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get it either. I don't get the long list of how horrible he is, followed by "I love him."
I don't get the complaints about the poor treatment, followed by "but most of the time he's sweet."
The theory? Denial is easier than detruth.
2006-11-13 22:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
run as far as possible/ if he cant be nice to the people in your life then hes not worth a grain of salt
smile big
2006-11-13 22:23:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Way to go bro! Hit them with the bomb! Lets see how they justify themselves! lol
2006-11-13 22:21:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well I had a guy like that too he was one too but to me thats why I broke up with him but what i am trying to say is don't be one because the gurl will not like you because the way you are presented
2006-11-13 22:23:41 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess he just has eyes for that girl like no one else matter but her. He shouldn't be a jerk to everyone else though that that's not good look
2006-11-13 22:21:26 · answer #9 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i've never met a guy with your description...and if i do, i'd never justify the way he behaves...
2006-11-13 22:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by Mila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋