shes been folowing me around all day with a bible and tellin me things like "we all get weird feelings! feelings will pass!" how can i get her to understand im bi and nothings gona change that?
2006-11-13 14:20:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how did it get in this section?
whatever.
2006-11-13 14:21:35 · update #1
Well you never know if it may be just a phase, I totally believe our preferences can change over time. Myself, I'm bi, always been, fairly sure I always will be, though I do tend to 'lean' one way or the other sometimes. Bible thumpers just won't get it though, and you may be better off just avoiding the subject if you have to live with her.
2006-11-13 14:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by zmj 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since I am a parent, my answer will probably not be what you want to hear, but here goes anyway. Your Mom sounds like she loves you, and is genuinely concerned about your well being. She also sounds as though she is taking an approach that is not working too well. If you are old enough to make these decisions without her consent, then you may need to consider moving out and paying your own way in life. If you are not old enough to make this decision without her consent, then maybe you should sit down with her, for a long, heart felt discussion about this. After this discussion you should honor your parents wishes until you are old enough to support yourself.
2006-11-13 22:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by Godsgr8 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that sexuality is not a choice. We can't choose what sex we are going to be attracted to, we are born with our sexuality. Tell her that being bi does not make you any less of a person. Explain to her that you love her but she needs to accept you for who you are. Maybe after some time passes, she will be more accepting of this.
2006-11-13 22:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bring around your girlfriend and tell her how happy you are. You can't change a Christian as hard as you try. Theres nothing you can do other then just totally ignore her when she starts up with that stuff... why the hell am I posting in this?...
2006-11-13 22:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The bible is not going to stop someone from being bi
2006-11-13 22:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ignore her, she won't understand. Or sit her down and explain how it happened, how you feel? do not let her talk until your done i know moms and they will try to get their point across and cut you off. If that doesn't work just keep doing what your doing parents never understand
2006-11-13 22:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by FELICIA H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her that a book does not define a human being.
2006-11-13 22:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by Imperfect 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her that the discussion is over. that ur not a drug addict and ur not a drunk and that it could be worse..tell her .."mom i like have sex with men n women get over it" if that dont work..paint ur bed room black dye ur hair black go pale n paint ur nails black n even wear black..then see how she likes ya
2006-11-13 22:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a gf and french her in front of your mom, that should let her know they aren't just strange feelings
2006-11-13 22:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by trial and error 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her Jesus loves all the children of the world
2006-11-13 22:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by Meme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋