i liked him. but now i love him to death
i cant get him out of my head. & he sed the same to me.
he txts me every night & day
and we meet up sumtimes on weekends.
i dont kno wat my parents would say if they find out.
but i really wana kno wat other people think about it all
should we still date?
or do you think the age is to much of a gap?
[x]thankyou.
2006-11-13 14:21:53 · 36 answers · asked by stacey s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way in hell an 18 year old guy could ever wanna seriously date a 13 year old girl. He's telling you all the right things to set you up. All this guys wants is sex. If he gets that your never going to hear from him again. Your way too young to even have a boyfriend. Dump this rapist. Some guy he is if he has to resort to daiting 13 year old girls.
2006-11-13 14:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly thats a big age difference for the age you are right now. You're at a point where you need to grow before you begin a serious relationship with an 18 year old who will be ready to do more things than you should be doing now. I am not at all trying to say you're a child, but compared to an 18yr old boy - those are 2 different worlds almost. Give it some serious thought and don't jump into anything. And most importantly, don't fall so quickly for him that you trust him and do anything he wants.... those type of situations never turn out well. Be careful.
2006-11-13 14:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by CoCo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now....i think that the age is too much of a difference but when you get older....say 16 or 17 i think that it will seem a little better. I know its only a 5 year gap but you are so young to be dating a guy that is 18. just be careful because you never know what he will want from you and i dont think that your parents will agree at all.
2006-11-13 14:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen girl, U love the guy. So what?
Well my dear friend, He's not the suitable person for U. I mean he's 18 & UR 13. BIG difference!!
U should stop dating him, in case UR parents find out. But, that doesn't mean U should start hating him. Just take him as a friend, after all, there is no problem having an older friend.
2006-11-13 14:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Five years is not much of a gap between adults but it's huge at your age. Will he wait for you until you are 18? If the answer is yes then there might be something special here.
I think you and I both know what your parents say when they find out (they will). Think about this carefully, it could effect the rest of your life.
2006-11-13 14:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news Stacey but this age difference is way to big. If my son's had ever dated anyone your age at his age I'd have had plenty to say to them about it. Luckily they choose to go for girls either their own ages or a little older, as didn't want to be embarrassed by dating anyone so young. I'm almost positive that your parents would disapprove also and your dad may have words with this man or 18 and tell him to leave his young child alone. The police may actually want to have a few words with this fella also as it would be considered statutory rape if he was to try and get to know you in the biblical manner. Please do yourself and everyone a favour and not only act your age but see males that are on the same maturity level as you.
2006-11-13 14:28:21 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got a load of time to be dating and fall in love. It's not so much the age difference that matters, 5 years in negligable, but he being 18 and you 13 is problematic. Leave it for now and if you still feel the same way in a few years, then go for it.
2006-11-13 14:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by John Doe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're too young to get involved with someone who's been around this long. If he really cares for you he will want to know your family and show some responsibilty. He also will want to wait to have a physical relationship until you are older. Don't want to see one of those questions, I'm 13 ,pregnant, and the guy took off and I don't know what to do.
2006-11-13 14:27:03 · answer #8 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and I wouldn't do that if I were you. He could end up raping you or something. Do you really think you love him? If you really love him and he loves you then he'll wait til you're older. I don't think either of you would be willing to do that. I say break it off.
Just wanted you to get understanding advice from someone you own age. Good Luck.
2006-11-13 14:43:58 · answer #9 · answered by Life Is Great 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's like saying a high school graduate dating a middle school girl. That's kinda weird. Maybe he wants u for sex, cuz being 18 and 13, yall probably have NOTHING in common. LOL, Savannah is pregnant. I hope that was a joke.
2006-11-13 14:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋