it all started when we wnt engagement ring shopping. we got a ring she got a penny's card and put it on it. i gave it too her the next day for anniversary. week later returns ring, two days after kicks me out of house, we talk she takes me back, two weeks later kicks me out again. says i didnt really mean to give her the ring she felt she pressured me into it. now i find out that since the first time she kicked me out she has been chatting with these two guys online. we have been talking some what but she wont really listen to me about how much i love her. also have a 6 month old daughter together. who come to find out wasnt an accident as what she put it out as. hole in condom her doing. i feel so lost with out her yet i feel betrayed by her too. and i have a bit of a grudge against these two guys. i cant go from seeing my daughter all the time to only on saturdays. should i trust her and go back? know some info about two guys. getting final answer wendsday the 15th
2006-11-13 14:26:10 · 15 answers · asked by jamie09racing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like this girl has some issues that she needs help with and that you will be much better off without her. I know it's hard to give up seeing a child but if she has problems, as it sounds like she does, you may have a shot a custody of the child.
2006-11-13 14:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Sherrie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound young. Be a man and take care of your daughter. You don't have to see heer every other saturday. Come to an agreement with the mom, or get a lawyer and enforce your parental rights. Forget about this girl. She is confused and you are just collateral damage. Move on with your life and be the best dad you can be. If she sabtotagued the condom, what else will sshe do behind you back. It's a tough lesson to learn, but be sure not to make the same mistake twice.
2006-11-13 14:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by bigwheeler19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she is a mother of a 6 month old child and your a father of a 6 month old child it doesnt matter if it was an accident or not the child is still here. As far as online guys or online dating, umm yea if she had any sense at all she wouldnt do it and what do you have to be so worried about its just her talking online. I am not saying you shouldnt be worried there actually could be somebody out there that would harm her but i doubt she would give out to much info anyways and sweety its just online she is just chatting, if you love her so much get back with her
2006-11-13 14:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by mommyandbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really sounds like this girl has some issues. It doesn't sound like you can trust her at all. You need to make the decision on how you want to live your life. Do you really want to continue on with her and never know when she is going to kick you out again or trick you into making another child?
2006-11-13 14:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being her stepping ground cause you are being played like a yo yo and she is the one pulling the strings and every time she kicks you out she already knows that you are going to be crawling back i know you love your baby and you can support her but stop being a fool for a user cause that what she is and as for as those two dudes they haven't done anything to you it her playing mind games with you and it is working drop her and don't go back find some one who will appreciate you and not use you good luck PS: she'll get hers when she realize she lost a good thing and don't look back
2006-11-13 14:42:29 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could be suspicious of that. there is not a choose for her to speak on line. She's already instructed you there's a difficulty so which you would be able to end it. it is gonna come to that throughout any case. You adult males do not sound nicely suited.
2016-10-17 06:10:48 · answer #6 · answered by kigar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, she is a cheat and a ****. Fight for custody of your daughter with everything you have. She has proved herself to be unstable and is manipulative. She will damage that baby and not care a bit.
2006-11-13 14:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont trust her now then you need to dump her and start over. because you will never trust her, maybe this is her problem. she can feel the distrust. love means trust as well as understanding. you show her trust and maybe things will work out for you guys.
2006-11-13 14:34:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 2 need to grow up thats the problem. stop screwing around! what you need to be focusing on is your daughter and how BOTH OF YOU are going to provide for her. this isnt about you 2s personal drama... its about your kid. tell her she needs to stop making you jealous and start paying attention to her child
2006-11-13 14:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now....she has issues, let her work through them. if you break up with her you make yourself available for a good woman, one who will love you the way you deserve to be loved...get on with your life and start living!
2006-11-13 14:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by never2pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋