If a girl I like just broke up with her boyfriend of 1 1/2 years, how long should i wait before asking her out? He actually broke up with her, btw.
2006-11-13 14:25:12 · 16 answers · asked by adam 2.0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends, look how she's acting. If she's all sad then you should wait a little while. But not too long because if you do wait too long, someone else will grab her before you. Good luck!!
2006-11-13 14:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kai-Kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If she's sad and stuff give it a month or so, so she can heal and stuff. If it was a mutual breakup and things are ok with her now then yeah, ask her out. Don't wait until the last mintue because you might missed your chance. Good luck and go get your girl!
2006-11-13 22:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by just another girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a long while, you don't want to be the rebound romance. Wait until she seems interested in dating again. She is going to need some time to deal with her feelings and emotions.
2006-11-13 22:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait some months.
Give her enough time to rid herself of the feelings for her ex. He might have an ace up his sleeve and could ask for her back sometime soon. There's really nothing you can do if she goes back to him.
So yeah... just wait until she's completely over him.
2006-11-13 22:27:43 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember the phrase "you snooze, you lose"
Talk to her and go out with her as friends, and just ask how she is going. A few weeks should be enough. It all depends on how the breakup was and whether or not she is upset.
If she is not upset, then sooner is better.
2006-11-13 22:31:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least a month if not longer you will be able to tell when she is ready to take on a new boyfriend. Until then just play it cool talk to her.
2006-11-13 22:28:35 · answer #6 · answered by Casandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play it cool... dont be a rebound, just ask her out as a friend first then move on., remeber her heart is broken right now and needs time to heal. take it slow
2006-11-13 22:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id wait a month, and ask for a friendship, or talk to her friends if shes ready for another relationship, and just ease in to it very slowly and understandingly
2006-11-13 22:31:11 · answer #8 · answered by Munkyluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 minutes or less! He threw her to the curb, she needs a freind now. Just don't take advantage of her.
2006-11-13 22:27:07 · answer #9 · answered by Jim V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to have lunch w/ you, be casual. Don't pressure her! Or ask her to come & watch a DVD at yer place..remember don't pressure her. If she says no..don't pout! You'll then know it's too soon.
2006-11-13 22:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by cherryfrank@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋