Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

theres this guy
i thought he liked me last year but this year he seems more distance.

I'm totaly in to him. but we been friends for two years we only hung out at a coulpe time at parties but the most time we see each other in class and sometimes at break.

would i scare him away or would he dig it?(if i told him i liked him)

help i don't want to stop the friend ship if hes not into me that way.

2006-11-12 18:50:17 · 4 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Singles & Dating

I've talked to her only 3 times so far and the last time we spoke was two weeks ago. Whenever I see her walking the halls alone I try to talk to her.

Anyways... the only thing I managed to grab was her name I didn't want to come on too strong. She hadn't used her myspace for about 3 months time, but she just got her comp back and started to use it. I'm thinking of adding her on MySpace and getting to know her this way.

We have no classes together this year so it's really hard on me. Plus there's a two year age gap. She's a sophomore I'm a senior.

Anyways she's a really shy person and I know it's easy to creep a shy person out. Like the first time we talked she was choking up big time. She doesn't know many guys at my High School. Last time we talked she was kinda uncomfortable. So I think getting to know her online will be a better alternative.

So is this a good idea or am I just going to creep her out by doin this?

2006-11-12 18:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 24 and my Boss is a 38 year old single guy. I have crush on him and it's so obvious that he likes me. However, he has not asked me out yet cause he might not be too sure about my feelings, age differences & also the work environment.
The problem is I usually don't have that much to talk about and get his attention when we all(staff) go out for dinner. I also can't look into his eyes that much since i'm very shy when I like a guy(sounds like he doesn't exist there)I know that's awful. I kinda want to act professionally and don't cross the line but since he seems like he's concern about me I love to get some help.
I want to know how to give signals to this guy or in general and how to make everything clear that if this case works out for me.
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2006-11-12 18:48:55 · 15 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Singles & Dating

im currently in a relationship with a girl who i enjoy being with (most of the time). i'm only 19, and this is my second real g/f. anyways she's fun, and she's very supportive. but at the same time man my blood pressure could raise at the things she does. she has a super duper temper, and she is borderline of high maintenence. but honestly, i'm young and want to explore my options. but at how attached she is...i feel stuck. I'm not trying to be a jerk that's my babygirl you know? but still how do i handle this... can you all help me out?

2006-11-12 18:48:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

seems they cannot wait to know more men, why do they behave in such cheap ways, so insecure...

2006-11-12 18:45:30 · 7 answers · asked by yoyo l 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom raised me to stick to my own race. I came into my daughters room and found a black boy sitting on her bed. I asked him to leave which he did. I laid my hand on my daughter in anger and feel bad. I told her not to trust black boys and grounded her. I soon found out the boy was 20 and my daughter 16 and tried to have him arrested. MY daughter threatens to run away if he is arrested so i am confused. My only daughter is not gonna ruin the good genes we have in our family with some african american juice. Am I wrong to think this and should I have this boy arrested?

2006-11-12 18:45:16 · 54 answers · asked by Christopher 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is the deal with guys and boobs. and butts. I mean, im not saying i dont have any. But i have just always wondered why they like them so much.

2006-11-12 18:43:36 · 26 answers · asked by lcw 2 in Singles & Dating

was dating a woman that is 20yrs younger than him?

2006-11-12 18:43:21 · 9 answers · asked by ♥chicagurl♥ 4 in Friends

it so important in my life.

2006-11-12 18:42:38 · 22 answers · asked by nitha p 1 in Friends

...with a beautiful and intelligent woman?

2006-11-12 18:41:26 · 13 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

please tell the best quality of a good friend

2006-11-12 18:41:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really need help. Is any one friends with a girl with the user name Barbie. It's just her boyfriend found out that we have been writing to each other and I assure you we are only friends nothing more than that but her last email got me worried because I think her boyfriend is the jealous type. I would go and see how she is but I live in the UK and she lives in the US. so if anyone is close friends with Barbie. Can somone please go and check on her and make sure she is alright. And let me know if she is. I would try emailing her but she has told me not to because her boyfriend has some how been reading are messages together.

2006-11-12 18:38:10 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

i got this text from my ex bf:

i'm sorry... you;re attempts to win me back dont have any impact :$ also that dress didnt work..(i wore a really hot dress to work, oeps). We could still be friends, sleep well, kiss

i was thinking of texting him back this, but dobt know, would love you're opion...??????

I'm sorry too:$ :$ i dont want you back because i dont trust you anymore (he cheated on me):$ and i cant love someone i dont trust.... about the dress, if i wanted to impress you i would have gone as a fish or a darts board!! if i know one thing, its that you dont care about looks...

and i would love to be you're friend, but maybe you could be a bit less ice cold....dont see what i did wrong to deserve that???
see u, kiss

What do you think??? any beter suggestions?????

2006-11-12 18:36:35 · 12 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

I've told my ex (we dated for a year and a half) many times that I thought we should stop sleeping with each other because it's not healthy, especially since I;m still in love with him. Then he gives me a guilt trip and tells me I;m leaving him because I want to. Because I don't want to be his friend.

Then he says hurtful things such as that he doesn't want to go on dates with me because he is going to go on dates with OTHER women. Then sometimes he might say "why do I still like you so much. I like you almost the same as if we'd just met yesterday."

He is very un predictable and sometimes he says he loves me and sometimes he says he doesn't. He;s jealous sometimes and sometimes he acts like he doesn't care.

It's a constant see-saw, so why does he continue to mess with me and sleep with me if he doesn't want to be with me? How can anyone do that to another person, especially if the person already expressed that they don't want to be used?

2006-11-12 18:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

out to the car, hugged me goodnight, etc. What the heck? and yes, I'm not just a young kid.. but confused.. helP?

2006-11-12 18:36:16 · 3 answers · asked by Cindy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had 3 sexual encounters with my girlfriend thus far and everytime I start I get hard than go soft again because my heart begins to race and I get really nervous she is sexually experinced and i am not this would be my first time having real sex with someone that likes me and i like them back alot...so I dont know what the problem is please help

2006-11-12 18:34:39 · 11 answers · asked by Dave n 1 in Singles & Dating

I will be having my wedding dinner soon, in a dining restaurant. While walking in from the main door, I would like to know what songs can I play that are suitable? In my mind currently I have "I do - by 98 degrees". Please recommend.

2006-11-12 18:33:19 · 11 answers · asked by Bun#2 in the oven 2 in Weddings

2006-11-12 18:30:32 · 27 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and have a problem. He is quite well endowed which is a plus for any woman, but the sex is quite painful. The only position that doesn't seem to hurt is me on top or missionery, but I'd like to try other positions with him. Can anyone help me with this? We're talking marriage and I want to be comfortable in all areas. Would anyone reccommend anything? Will appreciate.

2006-11-12 18:29:52 · 12 answers · asked by Heaven's Child 2 in Singles & Dating

i had a boyfriend for about 8 months and we loved each toher so much..then we started fighting and eventually broke up..its been a month and i am miserable without him..i thought i would be strong but i really cant live without him..i need him so much..my friends told him to call me and he did and we talked for 6 hours i havent been this happy in a month..the nest day he didnt call back and its been over 2 weeks since hes called..i want to tell him i want him back but last time i told him he blocked me and thought i needed space..i honestly am a mess without him..i dont even no where to begin..i want him back so bad and im scared its to late..and im scared that i dont have the courage to tell him how i feel..i dont no what to do bc he wont make the first move to tlak to me..how do i get him back..

2006-11-12 18:27:39 · 17 answers · asked by GDsoccer3 1 in Singles & Dating

My son was 12 and went to live with his father.I didnt want to let him go but i felt sorry for him because he never had his dad in his life and missed out on all the father/son stuff...I now know it was a big mistake but my son used to cry because he wanted to see his dad. For 2 years i said no. But later i was talking to his teacher about it and she said i should let him go or he would resent me later.....So to make a long story short his father rarely paid any of his child support. It didnt matter how many times my sons father stood him up or didnt send gifts he always acted like his Dad hung the moon. In the end his father was owing me like 10 grand in child support. When i finally decided to let him go about a year ago i had to sign custody over to his dad. We agreed that i wouldnt pay child support since he almost never (400 bucks in 11yrs.)paid. But now 1yr later he wants child support from me-thats fine i dont mind paying. But how can i get my past due c.s. he owes me or does he

2006-11-12 18:26:26 · 14 answers · asked by Kristi A 4 in Family

3 1/2 years ago i was with a man, who was married, they had an open relationship. I got pregnant. I now have a 2 year old daughter by him. He has only seen her a few times and we used to talk regular. He went oversees for 18 months and saw the baby both times he was home on leave. He has been home for almost a year now and has not yet asked to see our daughter. I was talking with his wife and found out he asked her for a divorce, I have not talked to him in quite awhile and he does not respond to my calls, emails or anything else. We have always said we were friends,and always would be at one point, he had said he fell in love with our daughter and myself but it was not really love , but why all the sudden stop the communication and not want to see his daughter? Im confused and hurt and lost. Im hurting for him for what he is going through and i have tried to tell him that, but i dont think he wants to hear it. he also just left to day for 5 weeks of training......thanks for any advice

2006-11-12 18:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by idontknowwhoiam 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I noticed that when my husband would get to a public place he would go to the bathroom first. Sometimes when we go to the bookstore, which he loves, he would be there for twenty minutes. I feel something is wrong. Am I being paranoid?

2006-11-12 18:24:15 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was in love with him even before I met him.. He is my ultimate passion.. I would do anything for him... except breaking up a marriage... He's married !! what can I do

2006-11-12 18:23:51 · 14 answers · asked by anu 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok,im 24 my husband is 41 and extremely wealthy,We've been married 3 years,but i can't stop cheating on him ive cheated on him 11 times in the past 3 years...he's becoming suspicious and im afraid if i tell him the truth he'll hurt me or take away the generous income im used to,I need his money to pay for our kids and my monthy expenses ( getting my nails done,my hair done,clothes)so divorce is out of the question... What can i say to him to ease his mind about his suspicions so he thinks im not cheating? what are some good excuses to use when ive been out all night and smell like liqour and male perfume? PLZ HELP? and is there a way to hide text messages from my sex buddies with out making it look like i have a lock on my cell phone?

2006-11-12 18:23:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my wife have been fighting due to money and drinking. She has been putting her hands on me and I feel I am at fault for me beating her at times. If I am arrested again I will goto prison for a long time so punching her back is out of the question. I dont know what to do to protect myself but calling 911. If she doesnt leave any bruises on me how can I have her arrested?

2006-11-12 18:23:20 · 19 answers · asked by Christopher 1 in Marriage & Divorce

talking about my ex gf of course.

2006-11-12 18:23:04 · 11 answers · asked by Murries B 1 in Singles & Dating

A women once told me she wants the nice guy, but when she had the nice guy she left him high and dry. No reason for leaving, didn't say why she was leaving just left. So I don't belive it when women say they can't find a nice guy.

2006-11-12 18:22:03 · 20 answers · asked by Aaron S 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 I am kind of introvert in nature. I love a girl. I can not impress girls by talking but I managed to talk to this girl alone. She is beautiful and she too talks to me in a very friendly manner. She works in library and I meet her every time she is in library. I used to see her atleast thrice a week or I will call her, but the problem is I don’t know how to talk to her, when ever I am with her I talk to her for only few minutes. She knows that I come to library just to see her. Unfortunately I couldn’t understand what she thinks about me. I think she knows that I like her but she never express any thing. I am going to graduate soon, then I will not be able to see her. She never calls me as I do, I call her twice a week just to say hi, but when ever I call her she talks to me very well. If she likes me as I like her she will call me frequently right? I am confused. can any one give me advice. It is hard to guess what women think. Should I say I love you or not?

2006-11-12 18:20:15 · 14 answers · asked by hilltopper9 1 in Singles & Dating

im sorry to ask this here, but since more people are on this section than any other, i figured it would be better. does anyone have any real tips for helping with insomnia? ive hada rough couple of days, i ahve a lot on my mind, and ive slept about 3 or 4 hours since friday. any suggestions, or stuff tha helped you would be apreciated.

2006-11-12 18:19:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating