I've talked to her only 3 times so far and the last time we spoke was two weeks ago. Whenever I see her walking the halls alone I try to talk to her.
Anyways... the only thing I managed to grab was her name I didn't want to come on too strong. She hadn't used her myspace for about 3 months time, but she just got her comp back and started to use it. I'm thinking of adding her on MySpace and getting to know her this way.
We have no classes together this year so it's really hard on me. Plus there's a two year age gap. She's a sophomore I'm a senior.
Anyways she's a really shy person and I know it's easy to creep a shy person out. Like the first time we talked she was choking up big time. She doesn't know many guys at my High School. Last time we talked she was kinda uncomfortable. So I think getting to know her online will be a better alternative.
So is this a good idea or am I just going to creep her out by doin this?
2006-11-12 18:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a good idea, but you better do the talking so it won't get awkward. Good luck.
2006-11-12 18:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah playa, don't "add" her. Just come on strong and ask her out on the spot when you see her at school. If she says no, then no sweat, it wasn't meant to be. Think about it this way, if she wanted you and wanted to go out she'd say yes. If you add her to myspace and slowly wiggle in, you'll be seen as un-confident, a wus, and the whole process is delayed and becomes a waste of time. Or try method 2: Treat her as if she's been a close friend for years, give no clue of attraction, until you get some alone time w/ her, then make your move (a couple glasses of wine helps). From then, it's on like donkey kong.
2016-03-28 03:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before jumping right to adding her why dont you send her a couple of messages to introduce yourself first. And as long as you dont come on too strog, I would recommend approaching her at school, just dont do anything to embarrass her (talking really loud and attracting attention, or trying to pop out around a corner to "scare" her). I used to be the shy girl at school, and I would have loved it if a guy had shown some interest in me. Usually the shy ones are just waiting to be approached, they are scared to be rejected....that's why they stay inside their "shell".
2006-11-12 18:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by weeewah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you get a chance to see her, just ask her flat out if you are making her nervous, and say you don't mean to, that you are just interested in getting to know her a little bit. Ask her if she minds if you pop up on myspace.There is nothing threatening in this and she should give you a better response.
2006-11-12 18:57:06 · answer #4 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's just too intimidated...don't think it's going to work out guy.
2006-11-12 18:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gawd .. ask her to a movie. she is just shy and nervous.
2006-11-12 18:54:42 · answer #6 · answered by Skorpian 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea just add her...talk to her online first
2006-11-12 18:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Ry126 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋