i had a boyfriend for about 8 months and we loved each toher so much..then we started fighting and eventually broke up..its been a month and i am miserable without him..i thought i would be strong but i really cant live without him..i need him so much..my friends told him to call me and he did and we talked for 6 hours i havent been this happy in a month..the nest day he didnt call back and its been over 2 weeks since hes called..i want to tell him i want him back but last time i told him he blocked me and thought i needed space..i honestly am a mess without him..i dont even no where to begin..i want him back so bad and im scared its to late..and im scared that i dont have the courage to tell him how i feel..i dont no what to do bc he wont make the first move to tlak to me..how do i get him back..
2006-11-12 18:27:39 · 17 answers · asked by GDsoccer3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
begin from where u stoped and see if he is readu to talk in it or not because may b he is angry about something you sould know first
2006-11-12 18:34:07 · answer #1 · answered by rafayello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made the first move by calling you- maybe he's waiting for you to make the next move by calling him back? I would say that he probably still does have feelings for you- if he didn't, then why would he spend over 6 hours on the phone with you? Plus you were together for 8 months- if he really cared about you, then he hasn't had enough time to get over you yet. He's probably just afraid that if you guys do get back together, you'll start fighting all over again- and that's a major turn-off for most guys -just ask any of them. You should be honest and let him know how you feel. If he's still a little unsure, suggest that you guys start hanging out again as friends- just make sure that you try not to start any fights with him. Give him the chance to be with you and maybe remember what it was that attracted him to you in the first place! Just make sure that while you are trying to keep the peace, you're not letting him walk all over you, or take advantage of you in any way. If you do, then you'll never have a chance at a serious relationship with him, because he'll think that you're willing to be with him not matter what he does- and that can only make you feel worse. There's always the possibility that he knows how miserable you are without him, and he's trying to play it to his advantage. Anyway, just remember to keep your head up, think positive, and be confident in whatever you decide to do. The more confidence you have in yourself, the more other people(including your boyfriend) will respect and have confidence in you as well!
2006-11-13 02:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by doodlebugg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him how you feel that's all and if he doesn't return the feeling then you simply have to get over it. I'm sure it feels like the end of the world, but you'll live I promise. Maybe, instead of letting the fighting get so bad you shouldve tried to resolve the issues instead of being so lazy about it. You should've appreciated the relationship more while you had it. You never know what you have till it's gone and most of the time it's too late to ever get it back. My advice to you is to do some soul searching find out who you are. Try to fix how you were in the relationship that made the issues and maybe next time you wont mess up. I'm really sorry this happened to you, but people just don't understand a week of fighting lasts a lifetime.
2006-11-13 02:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by kissmeximitalian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may feel you want him back, but does he feel the same about you? Sounds like he doesn't. I can understand your hurt and rejection, but don't take it personally. Without knowing what the fighting was from it's hard to elaborate much more. But it seems that he has made it clear he is not interested. You can't get someone back that doesn't want to be gotten back. Focus on your positive attributes and move on. Time does heal all wounds eventually.
2006-11-13 02:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by sissytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD.i have just been through these....i think u guys have talked on phone for like 6 hours im sure that guy still has feelings for u.u have to fight for him girl.dont be upset all day and do nothing...once man decides to be cruel or decides to pretend to be he could be animal! anyway my situation was tat about after 2 weeks' silence, and im quite sure during tat time i lived in hell,i asked him out and told him im sorry to be cool to him before and he hurted me so much but i still love him with all my broken heart. a little too much hah cause at tat time i was so serious and cant help tears..so guess wat..he just holds me and kissed me and said he never stopped loving me.....god.tas heaven again..i have him back...so just tell him,seriously, how u really feel.if yes u get him back.if no u at least fight for your love and nothing to regret.. and try to move on. u can survive honey.
2006-11-13 02:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by fallenrain7314 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Thank God for the internet! If you don't have the courage to talk to him face to face, send him an e-mail, and tell him exactly how you feel. You might be happily surprised, don't be shy. Doi it
2006-11-13 02:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by jthessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all you need to do is to apologize and say:
" I've been a sucker by telling you I needed space but I realised that when I have that space, I wanted you more. I'm so sorry."
That would work well.
2006-11-13 02:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by MissIndependanceday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the same thing you told us I know how you feel I want my ex back to. Dont wait to long you might lose him. I hope everything works out for you good luck.
2006-11-13 02:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you already lost him so nothing more to lose...just go for it and tell him, the worst you'll hear is a NO answer, but if he does say YES, then good for both of you, right? best of luck
2006-11-13 02:33:20 · answer #9 · answered by toffee-ettes 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds to me like he likes you but you are too needy. he gave you a hint to find yourself. only you have the power to make you happy. a new more confident woman will be much more appealing to him.
2006-11-13 02:30:23 · answer #10 · answered by misse 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋