I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and have a problem. He is quite well endowed which is a plus for any woman, but the sex is quite painful. The only position that doesn't seem to hurt is me on top or missionery, but I'd like to try other positions with him. Can anyone help me with this? We're talking marriage and I want to be comfortable in all areas. Would anyone reccommend anything? Will appreciate.
2006-11-12 18:29:52 · 12 answers · asked by Heaven's Child 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gradually loosen yourself with dildos. In the mean time, handjobs.
2006-11-12 18:33:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is important in marriage! So you definitely need to figure this out. Based on an article I read, you should be in positions where YOU can control how deep it goes, how fast you go, etc. So this means you being on top or if you want to do it doggy style for you to control the movements. And like the article suggests, spend more time into foreplay where you get so into it and horny that it makes it less painful (hormones can do wonders!). Lastly, and probably really important - LUBRICATION! Make sure you are well lubricated so that friction is the last of your worries.
Actual article on Askmen.com (from guy's perspective):
Your best bet would be to alter your sexual practices, so that your woman can control the depth and speed at which you penetrate her. For instance, if you like to have sex with her from behind, try standing still at the foot of the bed, while she moves back and forth onto you. In order to avoid hurting her, try to resist your urge to thrust and let her do her thing. You may also want to make foreplay and oral sex a more significant part of your lovemaking, in order for both of you to be as satisfied as possible.
2006-11-12 18:36:28 · answer #2 · answered by WordToTheWise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you and your partner will know if what position would be comfortable. Try talking it out with each other. Maybe you need a little more time of foreplay.
2006-11-12 18:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by josie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r already enjoying 2 positions primarily becoz u can control the penetration.
similarly u can do the same in any other position so that it remains comfortable. further spoon, rear entry etc are easier positions in ur case.
2006-11-12 18:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local book store and get a book called "Karma Sutra" it has all the sex positions hope that helps.
2006-11-12 18:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doggy style
2006-11-12 18:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that if you are in other positions, he can't push all the way in. Wouldn't that solve the problem?
2006-11-12 18:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try lying on your side and have him enter you from behind you while he is lying on his side too.
2006-11-12 18:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by jthessen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experiment with him is the only way to find out!!! Have fun!!!!!!!!
2006-11-12 18:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets innovate
2006-11-12 18:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋