I was in love with him even before I met him.. He is my ultimate passion.. I would do anything for him... except breaking up a marriage... He's married !! what can I do
2006-11-12 18:23:51 · 14 answers · asked by anu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, he may be your passion but you are not his. It's great you're so devoted, but put your love and devotion into someone who can do the same for you. Don't you want someone by your side every morning? To spend holidays with? To buy you tampons in an emergency? To stand with you when a loved one passes?
Loving someone before you meet them is not love. It is desperation.
2006-11-12 18:37:51 · answer #1 · answered by Pearl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a very complicated situation to be in!
You say you love him and that he is your passion, However, If he is married rather do not try and confront him about this. As hard as it is, and trust me i hate saying this to people when giving advice, due to the fact that im trying my best to do this as well, Move On.
Be friends with him but know the limits. You do not want to be the cause of a divorce! That is the worst possible thing anyone wants.
Unfortunately these things happen in life. Its all part of life, Part of the test!
2006-11-12 18:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_k006 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
forget him,and move on. Its obvious your still young and have plenty of time to meet prince charming.
Look at it this way, If you were "meant to be" he
(your ultimate passion) would not have been already married.
Knowing that we always want what we cant have...
Go find you your own man!!
have fun, live it up and enjoy the hunt!!
2006-11-12 19:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by samsmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say, get over with it!!!! he's married for crying out loud...show some integrity and look elsewhere!
You probably have a crush on him more than you actually love him!
Show basic respect for mankind and look for someone else...... I'm sure you'll be able to stand tall knowing you did not forge on in a relationship that was unethical!
2006-11-12 18:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you don't want to be a homewrecker. but if he's married then it's really his decision to file a divorce to be with you or he's going to keep everything the way it is. And if he does that then you know that he doesn't really love you as much. Cause he just want best of both worlds. but really i'd move on. because i wouldn't want someone doing that to me. relationship karma is not great.
2006-11-12 18:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by Belizea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes around comes around! If he is married let him go. One day you will meet the right person and fall so deeply in love and think of how you feel if he cheated on you. Besides, if he is cheating on his wife, he will also cheat on you! Once a chea, always a cheat! Good luck!
2006-11-12 18:30:38 · answer #6 · answered by tt & aj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He is already married.
2006-11-12 18:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by blissfully_rebellious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you love him and if he really feels the same way, hed decide on his own to beak up the marriage. other wise, sorry, i dont know what else you could do.
2006-11-12 18:32:32 · answer #8 · answered by sampolo193 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
put yourself in her shoes. how would you feel if your husband was cheating on you. try to move on. it may take some time but i hope you find someone that treats you right
2006-11-12 18:41:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult. However, you need to leave him for your own good. Leave him when you are ready. If you're not ready, you are not ready. Please think about yourself most. Your heart is yours, don't hurt it too much.
2006-11-12 18:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by Sunny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋