im currently in a relationship with a girl who i enjoy being with (most of the time). i'm only 19, and this is my second real g/f. anyways she's fun, and she's very supportive. but at the same time man my blood pressure could raise at the things she does. she has a super duper temper, and she is borderline of high maintenence. but honestly, i'm young and want to explore my options. but at how attached she is...i feel stuck. I'm not trying to be a jerk that's my babygirl you know? but still how do i handle this... can you all help me out?
2006-11-12 18:48:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you suggest having an open relationship? She might give you a temper when you tell her that but that is only way for you to explore your option. You should be in a relationship because you want to, not because you feel stuck in it.
2006-11-12 19:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you can't handle her temper and the games she plays. Tell her you care about her, but don't know if you're ready for this type of relationship and ask her to change or suggest that you two take a break.
2006-11-13 11:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to care about her and know that she is not right for you...there doesn't have to be some big dramatic end in order to absolve a relationship.
You are far too young to stay in a relationship that is causing you this much hardship.
If you know you two are wrong together...make the first move...end it!!!
I am sure you DO CARE about her feelings but like I said you are way too young to have to deal with drama like this!
2006-11-13 03:03:32 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋