A women once told me she wants the nice guy, but when she had the nice guy she left him high and dry. No reason for leaving, didn't say why she was leaving just left. So I don't belive it when women say they can't find a nice guy.
2006-11-12 18:22:03 · 20 answers · asked by Aaron S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nice guy = what some women want... Sometimes, being nice alone is not enuff in a relationship. Obviously, he is not what she was looking for thus, the leaving without a reason.. but again, i think the lady here, ows this guy an apolagy and a reason for her actions... You don't leave a relationship just like that... that's not nice!
2006-11-12 18:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone is alike and it is wrong to generalize everyone by an experience that you had with one person. A nice guy or gal is a general term and can have as many different meanings as their are people saying it. Maybe you two just weren't compatible. She obviously had a reason for leaving, she just chose not to tell you. I think that it is very rude and immature to leave someone and not tell them why you are going, but some people are like that and nobody can change them. I am sorry that this has happened to you. Please don't let this one experience make you bitter. There are many other wonderful woman out there that would love to have what they consider a nice guy. Good Luck!
2006-11-12 18:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what I want and that is a guy who is himself...no front. Most people these days put up fronts and that is a huge turnoff to me. I'm looking for someone who I feel comfortable with and who feels comfortable enough with me to let me know when they are angry about something or when they are happy about something..not someone who fits some mold society has fabricated. Bottom line...if you're just a nice guy or just a bad guy some girls can see right through that so just be yourself...most men have elements of angel and devil in them anyway.
2006-11-14 15:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Carolynne W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to be honest with you it's a lie for some reason us girls say we want a nice guy but it's not true. We like that bad boy once in awhile if he is too nice we just get tired of him why do you think that most girls last longer with the guys that mistreat them. So what we really want is an exciting guy that is not too nice we like that bad side once in awhile but not to the point where we get beat or treated bad just as long a we know they do show other emotions besides being to nice. We have to see them get mad once in awhile.
2006-11-12 18:26:58 · answer #4 · answered by MEri 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No two women want the same thing. Women are complicated. Sometimes they can not figure out what they want. It has more to do with what they feel then what they think. Then again if that becomes detrimental they might think and decide it is best to think then to feel at that point. So you see, there is no way to really know.
2006-11-12 18:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by skooter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly dont want a nice guy, ill get bored, a nice and proper guy would be soo boring, i want a nice, respectful guy who has a lil wild side that wont bore me, lucky for me i have it. but some women cant find nice guys, i have a friend who has been screwed over by every guy so this doesnt apply to all girls.
2006-11-13 13:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you women are confusing over half of the time. I want to be happy and be able to work things out in a relationship i dont want to feel like i am the only one who is bitchy. I know i have my days but everyone has them. I want happiness and be able to speak my opinons as well as my man and not have him screaming down my throat whenever i say things he may not agree with.
2006-11-12 18:32:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a lot of things. Especially in a guy. But that doesn't matter. What I want and what i need are two different things. I think that if I got what I really wanted, I would regret it.
2006-11-12 18:30:11 · answer #8 · answered by Nicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he wasn't niceness that she looked for. But not all of the women are like that...for example, many men told me that they want a cute girl. But for them, their cute girls are different for each man. B wants a cute like young, D wants a cute like shy cute...it's different.
There's no such thing "THIS is what women wants!" just like there's no such thing "THIS is what men wants!" because everyone's different.
2006-11-12 18:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Este 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the movie 'What Women Want' with Mel Gibson in it, then you'll know.
2006-11-12 18:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋