Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

iam 18 yaears old and my boyfriend is 27 years old and we love each other in about 3-4 months time were gain to move in together but iam scared to tell my mum plz help me theres 10 years differnce between my mum and dad but iam still scared and the other thing is that hes of differnt ethnic origin which they might not be happy about iam a bit of a mum pleaser so shell be very angry with me iam scared plz hep me all answers welcome

2006-11-12 21:48:51 · 23 answers · asked by deb$ 1 in Singles & Dating

I desperately need to fall out of love, before it turns into obsession. This has never happened to me before. I fell for a complete stranger. I don't know anything about him, but that doesn't matter anyway, we can not be together. I can't get him out of my head! I fall asleep & wake up thinking about him. It's been going on for months. First I thought I would get over him... eventually, but it's not happening. HELP!

2006-11-12 21:48:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm fed up of being chatted up by guys in bars and worse not knowing anything good to say back, and eneviatablly end up looking like a gimp, Has anyone got any good come backs for chat up lines?

2006-11-12 21:48:08 · 13 answers · asked by PJAY 1 in Singles & Dating

ugh... my bf freaken irratates me like no other! he gets mad over nothing raises his voice cuz i said *WHAT* omgg.... is that their way 0f showing they care or something. i do soo much for him and yet he still gives me sh*t.. ugGh i hate guys =X

2006-11-12 21:48:05 · 13 answers · asked by y0ur Face 1 in Singles & Dating

when do you know that you have a problem with drink.i dont drink every day but when i start i dont want to stop.my wife thinks i have a problem but i have always denied it.i think its affecting our relationship,but how do you get away from drinking when all your friends drink and socialise.

2006-11-12 21:47:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How can I get my pretty avatar to smile? I have tried but not been able to.

2006-11-12 21:47:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I already told him nicely many times but he keeps doing it. I don't have the energy to keep fighting it. Then I let him without complaining, it makes me lose interest. I care for him a lot. Does he know? Is he manipulating me?

2006-11-12 21:47:14 · 2 answers · asked by wondering 4 in Singles & Dating

She says I am too large for her and I will hurt her. I just cant understand her and cant force myself on her. Is she being unfaithful?

2006-11-12 21:46:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was with this girl for almost a year and it was through some of the roughest times of my life. we spent every minute together or on the phone and youd think after a while we would have nothing to talk about but there was always something. she was/is undoubtedly my soulmate. at one point i lied to her and never told her the truth and it was something pretty big. i dont wish to get into that but i realized i messed up and when she found out that was the end of us. i thought wed never speak again but somehow she forgave me (well maybe thats too strong a term) but we moved on and remained as close. we were best friends like we had been and for the most part it was like we still were together. now shes talkin to this other guy she denied ever liking and we got into a few arguments and she told me she hated me and hopes i die and she never really loved me. she showed me some intimate details from their online convo. it hurts so much. will it ever stop? i miss and love her so much.

2006-11-12 21:46:45 · 4 answers · asked by kewlrocker0485 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies!
Has anyone sucked your toes, liked your feet or rubbed your soles to his face?
Have you had such a experience? How did you feel?

2006-11-12 21:45:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 years and very much in love, but there is a very big age gap of 20 years. he has already been married and currently going through a divorce. he has 3 great children and i get on with his 2 sons but his eldest daughter doesnt agree with it. im scared to tell my mum and dad because i dont want to lose him. people will disagree with this relationship because of the big age gap. but does age really matter if its true love ?????

2006-11-12 21:44:14 · 28 answers · asked by lynzee x x x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have found lately that one of girl friends that I haven't seen for a few months and have always enjoyed her company I'm thinking about all the time. It's not as if I'd want to have a relationship or anything because I don't think I'm that way inclined, I've always gone out with guys before. But everything seems to remind me of her at the moment and I'm getting a bit freaked ut about it. Am I gay??

2006-11-12 21:44:01 · 8 answers · asked by Yodeller 1 in Singles & Dating

i split from my fiance of 6 yrs 8 months ago. we had our own place.he has since moved away. when i was with my ex i met this guy.he wasnt a friend of my ex but he knew my ex.

we swapped no's coz we are in the same career.he said he wished he could meet someone like me but knew i was engaged.he kept texting me to meet up but i didnt coz i was in a relationship.i did like him tho.

my ex at the time had a go at him about the texts.since ive split from my ex(not coz of this guy)i have met up with him a few times.he still texts me like before.we have only kissed eachother despite him wanting to take "things" further.

we live in different towns & only meet up if we are out in the same town on the same nite.he always compliments me & says that im a nice girl.he asked me if i was enjoying the single life.i said i was.

why hasnt he asked me out properly?does he like me?is he giving me space coz of my ex?was the Q about the single life his was of seeing if i was ready to move on?

2006-11-12 21:39:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a friend, a girl. were close to each other. then i'd notice that im falling inlove to her?what will i choose, to love her that may cause a friendship break up. or to continue our friendship as long as i can? thanks!!!!!

2006-11-12 21:36:29 · 6 answers · asked by richard 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a 12 year old boy me and my girlfried have been together since i was 4 and when i was 7 she told me she loved me and lately shes been talking about like how old we should be to have sex. She has a point we dont know and she says if we find out can we do it when were that age/ also she promises no matter what untill we are at least 27 we wont stop using condoms because we want to be safe. I was wondering how old we should be. She had her first period when she was 8 so she knows alot about it and her mom talked to her about sex when she got her first period. So can you please tell me how old we should be? thank you very much!

2006-11-12 21:36:27 · 11 answers · asked by shishi 1 in Singles & Dating

OK SO IV BEEN WITH MY BOYFRIEND SINCE I WAS 19, IM NOW 22 AND weve lived together for almost 2, i feel like weve changed well i have anyway, im not as happy and content as i used to be, we bicker about silly things a lot, and little things about him are wrecking my head, i feel like i changed a lot when i 1st met him and havnt really been mydelf for the last few years, i miss who iwas, im very quiet and reserved now and not as confident in myself and my decisions, i feel like im living like a person whos 40, settled down etc, i dont feel iv had enough life experience, and keep asking mydelf the same question, is this it, is this life? i feel like im settling, too afraid to break up in case ill regret it. hes a great guy in every way, kind goodlooking etc, and then theres another problem, im not attracted sexually to him at all, help?

2006-11-12 21:35:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been living with my boyfriend (Mexican) for a little over a year now. He is really nice to me, and I love him very much, but sometimes I wonder if he respects me as much as he would if I were a mexcan woman. For example, when we go somewhere and he sees one of his mexican friends, he doesnt introduce me! He tells me that mexican men dont introduce their wives or girlfriends to their friends. Is this true? Also I feel like he really expects a lot from me as far as cooking goes and taking care of his kids. Please all you guys out there if you could give me some insite. I would like to think he views me as his equal or at least equal to Mexican women. Someone told me that guys born and raised in Mexico think white women are trash and Mexican women are superior.

2006-11-12 21:31:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend been together just alittle bit over a year. kissing is great, but there are times when kssing doesnt seem enough, we want more,but were not ready for sex, is there soemthing we can do in between, more than kissing but less than sex?

2006-11-12 21:26:42 · 15 answers · asked by winky479 2 in Singles & Dating

last i spoke to her she was moving not far i have tried police everything she was born aug 15 1978 she is my only child i was single parent and love her so she has blond hair and is 5ft 5inch blue eyes please email me mrsteveps@yahoo.com

2006-11-12 21:25:41 · 1 answers · asked by mrsteveps 1 in Family

If you have not been together while they are in the relationship, but have developed genuine feelings and you feel they are a truly good person should you still not trust them or is this a part of life and love?

2006-11-12 21:22:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 21:21:43 · 16 answers · asked by black_pearl_white 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm sixteen and I feel so lonely. But this is a problem on my part because I'm sexist.

I'm going to be single for the rest of my life. This is going to be hard but at least I'm going to have more money in my wallet..

I might have to turn gay.

2006-11-12 21:20:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the dream was we were at a party when this girl asked him if he would go into the bedroom with her. he asked me if he could andi said if you do i wont be happy, he still went on with it. he then told everyone everything about it and i left not saying anything. is this over reacting and not thinking the relationship will last. what do all you think. am i over reacting?

2006-11-12 21:19:29 · 9 answers · asked by Tori F 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I get to see each other maybe twice a year and are dieing to spice things up. I would love to surprise him by starting phone sex with him cause I bet he thinks I don't know how. He is my first for all sexuall things and I was one of those very shy girls. But i'm suffering with out him and want to spice things up, How do I have PHONE SEX? How do I know what to say?

2006-11-12 21:18:39 · 10 answers · asked by princesstif03 1 in Singles & Dating

PLease help, i'm desperately in love with my gynae and no matter what i do i cant seem to get over him. I find myself making uneccessary appointments just to see him. He's always nice to me and his eye contact is really good. Sometimes I feel like something is there, other days he's all about his job. Should I make my move? The other thing is he's a lot older than I am not sure whether he likes younger women or not. I'm desperate...

2006-11-12 21:16:25 · 20 answers · asked by puppylove 1 in Singles & Dating

I met an amazing girl about four months ago, who I had been speaking to over the phone for 3 months. I asked her to marry me on the day I met her, and we married a month later. I know we can both be criticised for being impulsive and foolish, or alternatively praised for being romantic and spontaneous, but my question is not about that. We both love each other a lot and she is really an amazing character, with just the kind of loving, intelligent, refined and fun personality I could wish for in a wife. However, the physical attraction between us is fading fast. We look at each other sometimes and the spark we had in those first few days is not there, and we are having sex less and less, although there is still some attraction there. I think the relationship is becoming more like brother and sister rather than husband and wife. Should we persist with the marriage or get it annulled, which we can still do? Whatever happens we will be lifelong friends.

2006-11-12 21:14:55 · 16 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in love with a guy (josh) and my best friend Ron does like him i think he is jelus he does not want me to go out with josh but i love josh . what can i do? please help me

2006-11-12 21:13:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 21:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by JOZEF 1 in Friends

I only dated 2 people prior to college, with one that ended up lasting 4 years. I'm in my third year, and I've dated about 20, with 2 more relationships. (I'm still a virgin by choice though.) I guess my point is, isn't 20 a lot? Is this normal? (I'm 20 years old btw.)

My parents were pretty conservative and married the first person they dated. Is it normal to date so many people?

2006-11-12 21:09:59 · 20 answers · asked by Kristin 1 in Singles & Dating

Thinking of doing so. I am 24. No girlfriend but a hot blonde I know from class and I have been pretty busy. Maybe next time I see her at a party I'll seal the deal.
My other friends all did it with their gilrfriends many years ago.

2006-11-12 21:06:45 · 12 answers · asked by Thomas A 1 in Singles & Dating