I'm sixteen and I feel so lonely. But this is a problem on my part because I'm sexist.
I'm going to be single for the rest of my life. This is going to be hard but at least I'm going to have more money in my wallet..
I might have to turn gay.
2006-11-12 21:20:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have read all your answers tonight and yes you`re going to be lonely for a long time until you change your attitude .
2006-11-13 08:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,honey,you're 16 yrs and you're starting out with the wrong attitude toward women,and if you continue to have this empty headed thinking about women you're right,you are going to be by youself for a long time.If you say you're a sexist at only 16,I hate to see your attitude toward women when you turn into a grown man.Look,I don't know your situation at your home or who you've been around for you to have a sexist attitude allready,but you need to take a step back and re-evaluate your thinking.You know,money doesn't by or bring happiness,no matter how much you have or how much you accomplish during your lifetime,given you be around to do so.There's a saying be careful for what you ask for,you just may get it then you can't get rid of it,choose your words carefully.Just remember happiness starts from on the inside and spills out on the outside.You have plenty time to find someone who's going to like you for you,but,first please try to work on changing your negative views you're too young to be thinking that way already.You need to be focusing on dating, going to the prom,school activities,school functions,and not so much on sexiest views of things.So,who's ever putting things in your head on a negative view,just tell them,look,move away from me,I'm my own man,and i can think for myself.Don't let anyone cloud your view about anything,you are your own person,because,remember whatever you put out there,you're gonna get it back,and you may not want it in the way that it's coming to you,so be careful of the things you say and the things you do.You take care
2006-11-12 21:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
being sexist is proable a part of it. there isnt a female that i know that likes a sexist guy. you need to treat females likes they are the same as you nothing more nothing less.
you are 16 you have alot of time to find the one. dont worry there is someone for everyone out there you will be fine. finish school have fun, have a few short relationships but remember you need to treat them right for them to treat you right and then they will give you the respect back and may even fall for you.
as for you having to turn gay if you have fellings for guys thats fine you go for it find a guy out there for you, there will be one or two or even a couple. just wait for the right time
good luck
2006-11-12 21:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by Tori F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT TURN GAY ummmmmm u r just goin to hav to get ova that sexist thing.i doubt u will be aloen for tha rest of ur life u will probally find somone
2006-11-12 21:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by crybaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go watch Borat the Movie. It's very nice.
2006-11-12 21:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't met that special someone yet. Believe me there is someone out there even for a sexist. It might even turn some girl on.
2006-11-12 21:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by kitten 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't turn gay way to expensive.. girls are simple compared to guys.. instead just get a girl that feels lonely and thinks your her knight in shining armor.
2006-11-12 21:32:01 · answer #7 · answered by pwnz7321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does mean that you should turn into gay ...... how could a MAN say that ... be the man .. dont get emotional and tell your girl or show that i hav soo much feelin for you kinda thing .. they start playing hard to get ... dont spend lota time with her ... dont act she is the only one for me .. ... hav fun with her ... cuz u r good lukin guy that doesnt mean every one will like you .. girls see personlity yeah even looks but not that much like we all do[guys]
tease her ,.. please differentate your self [dont be the one that girl say to her friend like " same old guy borin guy "]
first hav lif of your own .. be in your reality not let her control the secution ... dont seek for approal ... see even if u love her dont tell her ... if she is really attracted to you she will tell her self
dont smile too much ...
hoo yeah bust her balls .. if you get chance too [ex:: like if she is wearing a cute top tell her :: " hi that top is lookin nice ... it really amazies me how your top hides your belly "
or
make fun of her if she does similar thing
be bit choosey ,
dont buy her everything ... dont buy her affection .[ dont bring "lets just be friends " thing .. , be attractive to her ]
good luck for future "get laid" lol
2006-11-12 22:02:26 · answer #8 · answered by zack 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, I bet you'll cave once you meet a pretty girl who's interested in you.
Trust me, men are weaker than women because they are driven by sex.
2006-11-12 21:26:47 · answer #9 · answered by Kristin 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't feel lonely to me. But I have some close friends who are nice girls. ;)
2006-11-12 21:26:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋