Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

i had a misunderstanding with a cousin of mine.We used to be really, really close when we were younger.But, i cant stand her mother(my aunt).I think shes an obnoxious snob.I tried not to show it, coz i like my cousin a lot,but i guess i must have slipped up and made a comment on her mom sometime, i think i may have because of what happened later.
Her mom came to india (they are in switzerland) for another cousins wedding.I wrote an email to her saying that the wedding was very nice and i had fun and it was a nice chance " to see another side to her mother" Now, i didn't mean anything bad OR insulting by saying this, just that it was the first time i had seen her outside the "home environment"(we had to travel together to another city to attend the wedding).Anyways, she never replied to this mail and i didn;t knw y until a yr later when her mother came for a visit and asked What exactly i meant by my mail and i explained it as well as i could.She was like, oh, alright.
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2006-11-12 22:26:27 · 4 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

me to but saturday was my bday and he chilled with me for a bit before i went to the bar and hes not old enough to go and then when i got back from the bar i found out he was pissed at me and left my house but i didnt do anything i mean we flirts with me smiles and teases me and **** but not like kissing just huggin and stuff and i dont understand well my friend said he likes me to but hes hard to read

2006-11-12 22:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by mandi t 1 in Singles & Dating

a bit u know what..

2006-11-12 22:23:37 · 15 answers · asked by billy j 1 in Singles & Dating

I not only have a pattern of abuse i have the same pattern. I dont know what to do. The first year is lovely, but gradually they stop me seeing my friends and things and then the next year or two is hell. My boyfriend now is doing the same things. even though he doesn't like it, my last boyfriend didn't like doing it either. They control, manipulate, then it gets physical. my first bf made me lose a baby. how to i break the pattern???

2006-11-12 22:23:35 · 14 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

... Yes I'm still with the same guy but not for long it has kinda fizzled if you know what I mean.

2006-11-12 22:23:03 · 2 answers · asked by dragan p 1 in Singles & Dating

I think guys.......girls do enough!!!lol

2006-11-12 22:21:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just wonder what would u do with ur bf that came over your house after you tied him up "not to do anything stupid"?
use ur imagination and get as far as possible into the details.

2006-11-12 22:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by James Blond 4 in Singles & Dating

This is our second marriage for both of us. My husband had a great offer to work abroad and make a huge amount of money years ago which would have given us a head start for our future. I supported him and followed him where ever his work took him although it was hard i was happy to do it on the hope that this would give us and our children a good future. He lied to me about how much money he was putting towards our savings and i found out that years of travel had been a complete waste of time he gambled about $150.000 if not more on horses over the internet. It wasn't easy but i forgave him, and thought we would start over. Since then he has built up debt after debt with each amount of huge debt there are huge amount of lies, although he says he has stopped gambling he over spends on, i dont know what. He says he lies because he is scared of me and makes me out to be a horrid person, yes i yell after the fact and i think i have every right to yell. He is in councelling !!

2006-11-12 22:18:25 · 16 answers · asked by angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

well she is ok but i do not know what should i tell her i like her but i think this not good to have rela with a 14 year old girl

2006-11-12 22:18:00 · 13 answers · asked by harshverdhan 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 22:17:52 · 6 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Singles & Dating

the 1st time he saw me he took a double look and smiled at me. at work he's always looking at me, sometimes just eye to eye (he doesn't turn away even when i look at him), sometimes he even smiled at me.but sometimes he turns away. but when he is talking to me he doesn't dare to look at me in the eyes and when he wants to concentrate he needs to have his back facing me coz it's the only way for him to NOT look at me...what does all these signs mean?

2006-11-12 22:16:50 · 9 answers · asked by djat20 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 22:14:31 · 19 answers · asked by one_hot_chick5 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Because I feel so guilty about having those dreams.

2006-11-12 22:13:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-12 22:10:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a 24 yr old woman and am deeply in love with a 30 yr old man, but unfortunately we r cousins, he's the son of my dad's sister i.e. my aunt. We also share a physical relationship, we never intended this but once in a weak moment we lost cntrol of our emotions and went into this relationship, and since then we opted to be in it. Although we both have committed to each other but are not willing to bring up this issue in the eyes of our parents, coz we know it wud result into a disastrous situation causing the breakdown of our family relations, nobody wud support us. For the same reason, i know one day i wud hv to let him go... but even the thought of getting away from him and living my whole life without him scares me. I don't know what to do now, i feel so lost. From his and my condition it seems to me that we'll keep loving each other like that, but will it happen coz i've not known anyone who has done this for the 1 whom he/she loves, what do u think about our relation, am i right

2006-11-12 22:09:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy a couple weeks ago and have been on a couple dates with him we have slept together once and it was great. I want to invite him round to mine for a meal maybe and a dvd. I dont have a table, just a sofa, so I cant do the candlelit dinner thing. What can I do to have the perfect night in. Any tips girls and what would you expect lads if it was you being invited

2006-11-12 22:08:51 · 4 answers · asked by Pet 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 22:06:48 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seein this girl and she has a boyfreind what should i do they are gettin marreid next month

2006-11-12 22:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by jon 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my partner for 4 yrs almost & we've certainly had our ups & downs, we have 3 lovely children together but I'm not happy. Splitting up with him would mean my children miss out on precious times with their dad, obviously they would still see him but not as much. I don't trust him, I never have but that was down to me as I got very insecure whilst pregnant with our first child & it just hasn't gone away.

Has anyone else been in the same situation or are in this situation now? I don't know whether to give it a go or just cut our losses now, we would still be friends if we were to split!

2006-11-12 21:57:51 · 18 answers · asked by C Greene 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i did think he was cheating until i found all the web sites. What do i do or say

2006-11-12 21:57:12 · 5 answers · asked by miss unsure 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don think i will get to be with this person even though they do have feelings for me. I will still have to see this person regularly though. How to squash the feelings before i really get hurt?

2006-11-12 21:54:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but any tips on stuffing the turkey??Im really wanting this to be a xmas to remember

2006-11-12 21:54:07 · 18 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

we will be having a garden theme wedding and we bought tiny terracotta pots for our supposed give aways. any of you have idea as to what to do with them aside from the usual plant-on-a-pot thing?

2006-11-12 21:53:49 · 14 answers · asked by enigma 3 in Weddings

Message: "Had fun. E. "
There was a sexy devil emoticon after it. She doesn't know I looked at her phone, but I was just trying to be nosy. Think she may have had sex with another guy, but not sure what the E. part means. This text was one she sent to one of her girlfriends after she went out with her "friend". I think it might mean "everything"? Not really sure though. Tried to find an online text message jargon dictionary, but didn't really come up with much. Please let me know what you think.

2006-11-12 21:53:03 · 38 answers · asked by cohrsman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK... the thing is during one drunken night,i ended up having sex with a guy.I am not with that guy now (and i never want to be coz i later found out wat a jerk he was) and i am not pregnant.
I did tell my mom that i had been drinking with my friend and called a couple of guys over.She was quite horrified and made me promise that i would never do that again. i wont.I also never wanna have sex again until im married(is that hypocritical of me?). anyways, im feeling really guilty abt what i have done. i always tht that i wud save my virginity until i got married.(obviously THATS not happening anymore) It was one act of stupidity. Should i tell my mom, or shud i live with the guilt and the consequences of my actions? i know it will hurt her and horrify her.But she is my mother...... plz be kind..... this guilt is killing me.

2006-11-12 21:52:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a boyfriend..I guess I do,or at least I am dating this guy that I like a lot, and he says he loves me..So what's my problem?
What's my problem if he calls me every night, and even just to see
if I am ok,if I am healthy physically and emotionally, if I am sad or happy or well..And even it makes him happy so happy to hear that I am ok and doing fine.. So what's my problem?
This guy drives 2 hours to see me every week as much as he can..and he just fell in love with me so deep,so fast,so hard..
He swears he loves me,and I know this cause he proves it to me.
I can look at that man, just one look to him,and he'll do what I ask him..It's like I have a spell over him,and I never messed with that crap..So what's my problem?
What is my problem if I still feel lonely,and still look for a certain
guy that likes a particular thing?..I feel lost,and just lonely..

Anyone tell me what the hell is my problem? I dont know..
Any advice? Anyone felt like this before with another person?

2006-11-12 21:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'll keep this description short, in point form...

This man is leaving his wife of 6 years.
They have a 2 year old son.
The man has multiple disabilities.
He says that his wife is no longer interested in him.
He wanted her the way she was before their son was born.
She is a very focused person.
Before the child was born, all her focus was on him.
Now, all her focus is on the boy.
People say the man is a very difficult person to live with, requiring a lot of attention.

I have my own ideas, but I would like to get other people's perspectives on this situation.

Thanks

2006-11-12 21:51:38 · 16 answers · asked by Balaboo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not being bah humbug, there are genuine reasons for this & they just stress me out each time i see them. My partner refuses to spend time with them & I would rather spend time with my partner over the festive period. My friend thinks it would be wrong to pretend we will be away on holiday in order to avoid going to any of those family events...

2006-11-12 21:51:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have heard mothers or fathers saying "this is my favorite son or daughter", and to the extreme extent of giving more love, money and inheritance.

2006-11-12 21:50:12 · 12 answers · asked by HM 3 in Family

2006-11-12 21:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating