I have a boyfriend..I guess I do,or at least I am dating this guy that I like a lot, and he says he loves me..So what's my problem?
What's my problem if he calls me every night, and even just to see
if I am ok,if I am healthy physically and emotionally, if I am sad or happy or well..And even it makes him happy so happy to hear that I am ok and doing fine.. So what's my problem?
This guy drives 2 hours to see me every week as much as he can..and he just fell in love with me so deep,so fast,so hard..
He swears he loves me,and I know this cause he proves it to me.
I can look at that man, just one look to him,and he'll do what I ask him..It's like I have a spell over him,and I never messed with that crap..So what's my problem?
What is my problem if I still feel lonely,and still look for a certain
guy that likes a particular thing?..I feel lost,and just lonely..
Anyone tell me what the hell is my problem? I dont know..
Any advice? Anyone felt like this before with another person?
2006-11-12 21:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't sound like you are in love with him. You admire him and you are in awe with this deep love he has for you and you are baffled by the fact that you don't feel the same. That's okay. You have two choices. You can tell him you don't feel the same way and split up or you can wait and see if you will slowly fall in love with him.
Here's the test. Imagine your life completely without him, and then imagine him giving all that devotion to another woman. You'd feel jealous, sure, but would you be okay with it if you had someone special you really loved? The big thing though, don't go shopping for another guy until you resolve things with this man. That's tacky and cruel. And you get a gold star for not wanting to manipulate a good man. Too many women do that and it's no wonder men get distrustful.
2006-11-12 22:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by Californiamama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean, YOU GUESS? It has to do with you, what you really think of yourself! There is no guy, not anyone that can fill the void or the place with-in, it has to come from you! If you are honest and are not in denial, some time you will see what is missing, do not look outside yourself for an answer. What did you lack as a child? Do you think you needed more from your family? Start jounaling each day , it may give you a clue to your inner self and you can find your own answer. Good Luck!
2006-11-13 06:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen Friend i can bet on a fact that you madly love this guy and so does her. I would say the reason you are lost is you need to spend more time with him. try and ask him to take you somewhere for a day or so if he can. I am sure you will feel really close to him. and forget getting another guy. In your heart you want just one guy that is him. if you think i am wrong or proven wrong please let me know....... god bless you.
2006-11-13 05:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Nik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are the root of your problem does not have anything do with your man, it is more of your uneasiness with increasing the intimacy of a relationship.
2006-11-13 05:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by DrunkenDialer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because your a woman, women always want what they cant have and when the have it they dont want it anymore.
Or they never know what the want in the first place.
2006-11-13 05:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's too nice and that bores women.
2006-11-13 05:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋