Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

my gf thinks she's fat so she has been on this diet but she likes to drink alot. I think my gf is the most beautiful girl ever and i'm happy w/ the way she is and i've told her that many, many times. Her mom told her that "drinking will not help her if she wants to lose weight". She was upset by this and told me what her mom had told her and i responed that i agreed w/ what her mom had told her. I do not think she's fat or w/e she thinks she is but she took it as if i was tellin her that she was fat b/c she drank. Now she said that she has lost interest in me b/c of that even tho we've been dating for 10 months.

2006-11-12 17:57:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can I tell my eight y.o son who wants to call his dad who refuses to speak to him b/c of child support issues he has with me? His dad cussed me out, and told me to have a nice life raising my son on my own b/c I put him on child support . My ex has not called for 3 months to talk to his son and he won't return my messages, texts, letters, calls .

2006-11-12 17:57:15 · 9 answers · asked by nene 3 in Family

But she is having more interest with me. She is not showing like that. But she is telling its impossible & her parents also not agreed. What can i do

2006-11-12 17:55:47 · 26 answers · asked by Siva 1 in Singles & Dating

how often in a week do you call your wife?

2006-11-12 17:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by budi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if all of them do, but I just saw an documentary on HBO called Real Sex where they did a story of an all black male stripper group and holy cow ! I think some of the more petite white women will get impaled if they go near that thing.

2006-11-12 17:54:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you internet people seem to know everything.

2006-11-12 17:53:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 17:52:57 · 11 answers · asked by neverendingstars 3 in Singles & Dating

we hang out here and there and we work together but i work from home, sometimes i dont return his calls and he says he misses me but then i let him in my space whenver I can, we kick it, we are not sexual but sometimes we play around and he spends nights at my house and then he always dont want me to ask him questions relating any other woman he says it bothers him. But then he also wants to invest with me but he always put this wall up all the time...he does let me in his space? I dont know how to deal with this situation. What msg is he trying to send me? Is he using me or he is just scared or he wants to get back with me in future. Should i just wait or let it go. Please help.

2006-11-12 17:52:41 · 4 answers · asked by Msfunloving 1 in Singles & Dating

when a guy says he wants to hold her hand?

2006-11-12 17:52:08 · 24 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend can't meet that often, but yes we both love each other and are looking forward to a bright future. But because of the distance between us, we both have a fear that either of us may drift away from the other. I feel that someone may steal her from me and she feels that someone may steal me from her.
I know this feeling will arise, but we had decided that 'coz we love each other such an event will never occur. We decided not to raise this isue ever but still sometimes, such a topic rises and we both get very upset.
Why does this happen?? is there anyway apart from meeting by which we may overcome this fear?

2006-11-12 17:51:23 · 7 answers · asked by AB 2 in Singles & Dating

i m a new user of yahoo & i m 17 years old

2006-11-12 17:51:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

the disadvantages are obvious, STD's, immorality, distrust (i.e. if he had sex before he promised to spend his life with her, then he could do it to another girl after all, what was the promise he had made anyway?) the list goes on. but, other than "well, it feels good" what does sex before marrige bring? and don't say a deeper/better realationship, because that's not true at all. you dont get to know a gy but sucking him, just as much as you cnat know more about girl by her breast size.

2006-11-12 17:50:47 · 21 answers · asked by Daniel 3 in Singles & Dating

How do I even begin to reply to this?! What should I Say. My girlfriend & I got into a fight and moments later she emailed me back with
"bullshit. to you it maybe but to me its not. I belieaved her cause ii was hurt and in my head not ever not once did i ever thinking about cheating on you or even being with someone else. and those two reaons ive been talking about are really not bullshit cause they hurt me more then anything! I have never told you these because i hate to talk about them but one reason is because i guess my dad left my mom never wanting to know about me hear about me see me not even wast his time or money on me and thats one thing ive always been hurt about and the other is omg i cant belieave i have to say it i was Raped OK! by my favorite cousin when i was little he was my favorite the one i trusted and he did that to me and i have always remembered i mean its something i will NEVER forget!!!

2006-11-12 17:50:20 · 4 answers · asked by SmashJ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

annoying mother in law

2006-11-12 17:48:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom hates me.im 17 years old im not done with school,i dont have a job but i feel like moving out some how, is there anything that i could do to leave this house?

2006-11-12 17:47:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

meet this one girl on the internet. she didnt like me at first and deiced that i was parnoid and left me at the time well i keep leaving her messages and she finaly take to me. She told me that her family was in to poltics and her family was rich. well we fell inlove and then months later she told me everything abouy her life and family. i went out and meet her anute, uncle and grandma and they were nice to me and they had a big house. i also talk to her mom and she loves me also she always takes my last name. She also talk to one of my friends and they all say that she really loves me and i love her to death.. she wants me to live in the philippines and now i am just confuesd if she really loves me. she will not take money from me even if i send it. also her friendster she will not keep the testi that i add to her.I AM IN THE US ARMY AND FOR ME TO LIVE THERE I WOULD HAVE TO GET OUT OF THE ARMY. I HAVE 3 YEARS LEFT.and i forgot she has sent me money about 332 dollar when i need it

2006-11-12 17:46:45 · 4 answers · asked by masterharmz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 17:46:09 · 10 answers · asked by shaaza 3 in Singles & Dating

i have no idea if he likes me as much as i like him. he told me about a couple months ago that he liked me, but i said something stupid in return and ever since then we've been hanging out and talking on the phone as "friends". he's the sweetest guy but we've never really talked about our feelings for each other. he told me over text message that he liked me.

what are the exact words i should say to him in person? please help! i plan to say it very soon.

2006-11-12 17:46:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've searched the internet thoroughly and can not find anything. My father was denounced from my mothers family and my mom later, within a year, married my dad I've always known, and had everything changed on my birth certificate.

My mom told me on my 16th bday I was adopted, 2-3 years later my dad wrote me a note talking about my real dad.

What do I do? Is there a way I can just find his pictures to see how similar I look, and learn about that side of my family and their potential health problems?

2006-11-12 17:44:51 · 7 answers · asked by PlasticTrees 2 in Family

he is sending me mixed signals, ie. hitting on me when he's drunk. He never used to do it before I indicated any interest in him. What should I do?

2006-11-12 17:44:06 · 11 answers · asked by marie_hall 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and my boyfriend (hes 27 im 19) took a 2 month break, and we didnt even speak or anything... but when we started talking again, and we were thinking of getting back together but decided to wait just a little longer so we could really think about it even more, but we told each other i love u and everything... it was spring break and i went to Rio, in Brasil with some girlfriends... i went clubbing and one night i kissed a guy... even though we were not dating, i decided to put it behind me and never mention it to him.. BUT, i got back together with him and months later i wanted to clear my consience... and told him about it... he was really bummed out cause then we actually WERE talking.. i REALLY regret it, it wasnt even worth it, and i feel SO BAD... and i fear he will want to get back at me and kiss a girl.. how do i make him feel better about this? do u consider this cheating?

2006-11-12 17:44:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lol this is such a stupid question! but im curious, how many girls hug their pillows? i personally dont do it, cause i hug the real thing =D

2006-11-12 17:43:32 · 13 answers · asked by thugster17 2 in Singles & Dating

She is single and attractive(I hate her really) I wont be able to see her so i need to post her something so not to big any ideas???

2006-11-12 17:43:24 · 17 answers · asked by jules 4 in Singles & Dating

He's 20 and I'm 19. We met on myspace went on our first date on Friday to see movie. He opened doors for me, before the movie started he told me to look at something in the opposite direction and bit me (not hard), he held my hand and gently touched my fingers during the film, he sometimes kissed my hand during the movie.
His leg kept shaking, he also touched my hair and kept staring at me at certain moments.

End of the date he walked me to the train and kissed me goodbye he also hugged me after the kiss.

Signs of love or like any regular date? I'm aksing coz I think I love him.

also - when we talked on IM i jokingly said ''U dont love me'' and he said ''Are you sure?'' and I said ''well I don't think you do'' and he said ''ok, shay ok, lets change the subject''

what does that mean? (my names shay lol)

2006-11-12 17:43:01 · 7 answers · asked by shy_dixon 1 in Singles & Dating

I introduced myself to a guy that I'm interested who goes to my school who seems to always have a blank unreadable face, but every once in a while he'll make a joke and crack a smile and its easy to tell when he's confused about something I'm saying but I'm having hard time telling if he's interested in me. I'm pretty sure he doesnt have a girlfriend. He's started to call out "hey hows it going" to get my attention if he sees me somewhere even when I dont see him or if i attempt to just smile and walk by and then we keep making small talk but I can't tell what his motives are. He also has come up behind me in the library a couple of times to make make small talk. Why doesnt he have any facial expressions! And he hasn't really asked me any questions about myself even though I asked him some and I use his name when I say hi and now I'm not even sure if he remembers mine, because when he tries to get my attention its by calling stuff out rather than using my name. What's his motive?

2006-11-12 17:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is going out with a girl whome i did it with. but she is HOE but he thinks shes the best. Should i tell him shes a big hoe and I did her and his sister at the same time. I asked but i didnt think they would but they did. I should just leave the sister part huh?

2006-11-12 17:42:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We may not be working together much longer, since I'm changing jobs in a few months, but still....

2006-11-12 17:41:26 · 24 answers · asked by Irish girl 2 in Singles & Dating

his b-day is tha next day after

2006-11-12 17:41:25 · 3 answers · asked by pooh bear 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do ?

2006-11-12 17:40:12 · 19 answers · asked by jayakrishnamenon 3 in Singles & Dating

I have seen this guy twice now once I when I met him at the pub and then the second time I messaged him to go and hear a band in a few nights time, and he asked me what I was doing that night and he came over my sisters place for a few drinks, I ran into him again at the pub last night and he invited me back to his place for a few drinks but I couldnt go I had to relieve my babysitter, I messaged him and said he could come to my place for a few drinks and he didnt answer the message. After I first saw him he told me he would give me a call but so far I have initiated all the contact, I don't know whether to keep messaging him or wait for him to contact me

2006-11-12 17:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by bjwelb 1 in Singles & Dating