ok so me and my boyfriend (hes 27 im 19) took a 2 month break, and we didnt even speak or anything... but when we started talking again, and we were thinking of getting back together but decided to wait just a little longer so we could really think about it even more, but we told each other i love u and everything... it was spring break and i went to Rio, in Brasil with some girlfriends... i went clubbing and one night i kissed a guy... even though we were not dating, i decided to put it behind me and never mention it to him.. BUT, i got back together with him and months later i wanted to clear my consience... and told him about it... he was really bummed out cause then we actually WERE talking.. i REALLY regret it, it wasnt even worth it, and i feel SO BAD... and i fear he will want to get back at me and kiss a girl.. how do i make him feel better about this? do u consider this cheating?
2006-11-12 17:44:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what did he do for 2 mo. its bullshit if he pleads innocenct. you were taking a break, part of that is exploring new possibilities. a kiss is hardly cheating. you were conducting yourself very responsibly for 19 in rio!!!! if you ask me, i'd say he's just another older guy, controling another young sweet girl. move on girly, you have a whole world ahead of you!!! besides, he may just be pissed bc he didn't get any. or maybe he is too jealous or too sensitive. all things that become problematic in a relationship, esp with younger people dating older persons. gl, hope it works out for the best, but your not a cheater for kissing a guy on vacation while separated!
2006-11-12 17:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, I don't think you should have told him, if it was just a kiss, it wasn't worth it, and you should have put it behind you. Yea, men think like that anyway, he might just go kiss a girl, or even screw a girl just to get back at u...sorry if it's harsh but i think it's the truth
2006-11-12 17:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I look at my two friends. My friend James decided to say that he had sex with her best friend and he decided to say this on their anniversary night....But they are still together. Why are they are still together? Because they forgive and forget and that is a true love. If he loves you I'm sure that he won't purposely try to hurt you. But just be there for him and say that you love him.
2006-11-12 17:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by Wheaties 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he is some jealouse male-look out you're not getting into a life of hell with an overjealouse male.
Just think what would of happened if you would have had sex, the mind boggles, are you sure he's the one??? maybe he wants a nun.
2006-11-12 17:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by graeme1944 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you could kiss your cousin and it would not be anything. If you did not do anything else, I do not see why he would mind. By the way, why did you kiss him if you were getting back with your old boyfriend. Maybe you are not ready to get back right now.
2006-11-12 17:48:18 · answer #5 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really talk to him tell him it wasnt intentional that you do love him that you dont want it to change anything. and no its not cheating you werent going out i mean it was probably a little bit because you guys even though you werent going out you were still basiclly exclusive. but dont worry just try and talk him through it.
2006-11-12 17:48:39 · answer #6 · answered by Linneas Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i think what you did is just of blue. Anyway you confessed cause you don't want to cheat him.. If he won't forgive you that means he is willing to fight for your love together... One mistake is forgivable, but twice or thrice is already intentional. But somehow every mistake has an end consequence, so expect for it .. Be ready...
2006-11-12 17:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus, its only a kiss. its not like your performed oral or took it up the bum from him. relax, mellow abit. if ya b/f is going to whinge about that, get rid of him and have some fun.
2006-11-12 17:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer yet yet she is conscious she has were given it coming from me on each occasion I see her!!! comprehend what? its humorous how, those women who cheat and chop up couples can run, like the devil at the same time as they comprehend that they are on the verge of give way of procuring each thing that they have got finished.
2016-10-16 08:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no, you didn't do anything rong, don't woory bout it, I can uderstand how he feels but that his problem not yours and i an sure you guys can sort it out, only time can heal this
2006-11-12 17:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋