Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

Every girl i have dated has done this. i hold her hand then she interlocks our fingers.

2006-11-12 17:17:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been burned so many times in relationships so I try to be cautious but we've been dating barley three weeks and we've already discussed having sex! we were supposed to a couple of time and then things got in the way, but now theres a bunch of drama, and he foudn out I lied to him about something really minor but still a lie I dont know if he's going to forgive me! I like him so so much I wont say I love him but down the road if we stay together I think I WILL love him! we're so good together and I hate to be away from him I cant stand the thought of him leaving me over me making a stupid mistake, he's a recovering drug addict too so he cant have too much drama in his life, I dont want to compromise his recovery I know that his recovery comes first and I want it to be that way! but I dont want to lose him either :( any insight?

2006-11-12 17:17:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated a guy and we were very close friends but ended up getting into relationships with different people. Then those relationships dissolved and we were there for each other and slowly our feelings became more serious. However, his ex just so happens to have been a very close friend of mine. I felt weird about that although I dated him first. Anyway, we spent a lot of time together after our relationships ended but we both had baggage. Eventually it got to be too much and I cut him off. However, I really did and still do sort of have feelings for him. We've kissed but after my last relationship I was afraid of getting hurt again so I cut him off after an argument about me being too detached. His mother and I are very close and I miss him and to make matters worse we attend the same church. I feel like giving him another chance. Should I leave it alone or start over? BTW he asked me to let him know if I ever changed my mind.

2006-11-12 17:14:54 · 11 answers · asked by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 35 years old, never been married, and have no children. I have dated my share of losers in the past and now I am looking for happiness and I am also looking for someone to spend mt life with. There is a man that I have thought about over the years, he was the one that gave me my first kiss, the only thing is he is in jail and has benn in jail for 13 years, please don't think he is a bad man because he is not; young and old like him. One night he gave a couple of guys a ride from the club the cops stopped him and the guys threw drugs in his car, the guys lied and said it was for him and he has been in jail every since. His dad church even tried to help him and they did they paid for some of his lawyers fee. His sister said you always did like our brother and I told her yes I loved him all of my life. I don't know what to do

2006-11-12 17:14:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so my boyfriend left in August on an LDS mission he'll be gone for 2 years. I love him a lot but two years is a long time. I'm proud of him for doin what he's doin and I know he's where he should be but that doesn't change the fact that I miss him. Do I date or wait??Any advice I would love to hear it, thanks!!

2006-11-12 17:14:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with a guy (ok, we'll call him Guy just for ease) many years ago. Time and circumstance separated us. Now all these years later we have found each other (through the internet of course). We still love each other. We are both married. I have separated from my husband (not exactly related but not exactly not related, and yes we have filed for divorce). Guy tells me he wants to leave his wife, he wants to be with me, yadda, yadda, yadda. Am I being a total fool here? I know he loves me. I truly love him more than I ever really knew. But am I just wasting my time and energy?

2006-11-12 17:14:20 · 21 answers · asked by lizzie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Our five year old when he is @ school is the best child ever so we've heard but @ home he spits @ us and he punched me in the back of my head in public because I did not buy apple juice, he screams at his younger sibblings that he hates them and he always will. I don't know what to do I could go on for days on more of his issues before i finish but I give up. please all advice will be considered. (within reason)

2006-11-12 17:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by just lil ol' me 3 in Family

I have a 3 year old daughter. I honestly can not stand her. I don't know if it's post partum depression from my 9 month old son, but she just keeps on doing stuff that annoys the heck out of me. On top of it, her father is no better than a 2 year old himself and never tries to teach her right from wrong. I get so furious with her. No, I don't go over the top and all out beat the heck out of her, but she is just too much. I honestly feel like she needs to be sent to a boarding school where they will force her to behave and obey without intentionally destroying everything she touches and intentionally trying to injure her little brother. She likes to throw glass and she likes to try standing on her brother when he's crawling around. That's not the worst of it, this is her on a good day. I honestly can not stand her and want to send her to a boarding school, and I hate feeling this way about her. I was not raised in a family like this, and I just don't like her.

2006-11-12 17:12:34 · 13 answers · asked by november03february06 1 in Family

The other day i asked my bf what size of breasts he preferred he said mine were perfect but then i asked him?
again and to be honest he said he didn't kno, i said do you like jessica simpson's breast size and he was like it'd be cool if yours were that size. he said guys also like bigger breasts. even thou it was me that asked him in the first place, it still hurt my feelings when he said it'd be cool if yours were that size..what should i do? or am i just being stupid and thinking about this?

2006-11-12 17:11:18 · 17 answers · asked by rupster_84 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a short hair style (straight, barely shoulder length) and I would like to keep it this length for the wedding if possible but still want to do it up somehow. Can anyone give me some ideas or tell me of some sites where I can see some up-dos please?

2006-11-12 17:11:12 · 8 answers · asked by CGS 3 in Weddings

We’ve been together for four months now and he’s been on the base [he’s in the military] for most of the time so needless to say we don’t see each other every day. Anyway he’s coming home for Christmas soon and Im way nervous that he’s changed or I have or maybe Im not good enough anymore or maybe he wont love me like he says he does what if he rethinks everything? I want everything to be okay, do you think these are irrational fears?

2006-11-12 17:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by signalfirst 2 in Singles & Dating

HELP ME

2006-11-12 17:09:26 · 26 answers · asked by calvitoe 2 in Friends

all of the guys in my class were talking about sex and once my home girl said that she was a virgin the boys laughed at her like it was such a bad thing. i think its a good thing. Guys please answer my question and girls in that fact let me know if u need the answer to this question too.

2006-11-12 17:08:59 · 13 answers · asked by littlemama3313 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 17:06:53 · 20 answers · asked by baby girl 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked two questions. I could be losing my gf the girl I love so much I see her in my future and she says she sees me in hers. I ask for help about what to do cuz shes pushing me away, not letting me in , not telling me whats wrong with her. I asked for realy advice and only 4 people answered. What is with the rest of you? Do I have to keep on asking dumb questions for you answer by the load?

2006-11-12 17:06:51 · 20 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been dating for 4 years now

2006-11-12 17:05:38 · 19 answers · asked by takinbaksunday05 1 in Singles & Dating

i have no idea what i should do my friends are starting to hate me because there crushes are starting to like me. i cant help that fact that they like me and think i am hott or whatever. My bf is starting to get mad at me for all the boys that follow me around too.i am about to stop getting all beautified in the mornigns so guys wont like me any more just so my friends will not get mad at me. please help me out about what i should tell my friends!!!! PLEASE!!!!

2006-11-12 17:05:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Once I called him out on this behavior and showed any interest, he totally backed off. However the earlier behavior indicates he may be interested in me...?

2006-11-12 17:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by marie_hall 1 in Singles & Dating

I think there's this really cute guy that I have no classes with him though. And he flirts with one of my friends (but I'm not mad at her). I dress like a boy. I'm like a normal girl. I'm friends with lots of boys, and some like me. I'm not shy. But I'm shy talking to the boy I like. Even looking at him makes me all tingly inside (lol)

2006-11-12 17:03:36 · 7 answers · asked by Me! 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 17:03:21 · 9 answers · asked by Blah Blah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How soon should it be cause our first was this weekend. Should i give her a flower when we first meet up. What should we do.

2006-11-12 17:02:44 · 3 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife was dating a black guy before she met me.
For some reason - I could not get the idea of "him"...and my with with a black guy - out of my mind.
For awhile, I got her to talk about what it was like for her - how the guy looked - his size...etc. I know he was well-endowed...I had constant dreams about her hooking up with him again - just so I could see what it looked like!
She decided she did not want to talk about him or his cock to me anymore - SO...I was left thinking about things on my own.
In the years we taked about him - and talked about his size - i realized i wanted to see a black cock "live". And my wife made it clear she would never do that.
After looking at every Yahoo picture and video of well hung blacks guys - I finally decided - and met a guy on my own - just to get the obession out of my mind.
SO...I met a black guy - gave him oral sex - and am now ashamed i did that!
I am near homo-phobic...but it was something i HAD to do.
How can i get over this

2006-11-12 17:02:23 · 10 answers · asked by James M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love my boyfriend, and he says he loves me...He says I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him and that I'm everything he has been looking for...(also that he wants to marry me) But, I just don't get why he calls me sooo late, EVERY SINGLE DAY even on WEEKENDS. There's even days he doesn't call me... The earliest he's called is 10......I'm starting to think he's talking to another girl....Should I trust him??What are some signs of him cheating???

I would really appreciate it if you could help me out....

2006-11-12 17:01:16 · 14 answers · asked by Lia 2 in Singles & Dating

We don't drink coffee, so no coffee places and we don't drink alcohol so no bars or clubs.

2006-11-12 17:00:54 · 6 answers · asked by just another girl 5 in Singles & Dating

I am married with 2 children. I met my wife about 10 years ago and loved her very much. We got married about 2ys later. Everything went fine and I was ok with my life. Until a year and half ago when I met a woman through work. This woman changed my life upsidedown. She is very different. I feel very happy when I see her. I forget everything around me when I am with her. I am sure that I love her. I tried to stop my feelings for her many many times but I coudnt. I took long vaccations, changed phone numbers , faked arrgumrnts with her and stopped seeing her for long durations but I was never able to forget her. Then I realized that there is just no way to deny that I fell in love. I still love my wife too. I dont want to hurt her feelings. And I dont want to destroy my family. The problem is that woman didnt want to have a relation with me as long as I am married. I am in severe pain when I am seeing her go away to someone else. And I just can't leave my wife. Why cant I just have both

2006-11-12 17:00:53 · 13 answers · asked by tom c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I just a general question, if you call a guy and leave him a voicemail, saying that you were jsut calling to say hi, and he calls you right back, does that mean anything? Is it a good thing, Does it mean he;s intrested?

2006-11-12 17:00:10 · 5 answers · asked by Virgo1980 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so there is this girl I really like, she has feeling for me also. Friday we went to a field trip, we hung out the whole time. It went great she even ended up holding my hand in the bus the whole ride back to school. The next day i asked her what was going on between us and she said that her last relationship was horrible so right now she doesn't want a boyfriend but maybe in the future. She still wants to hang out and talk to me though. To be honest I have never felt this way about a girl. Should I keep trying? If you were in my position what would you do?

2006-11-12 17:00:01 · 3 answers · asked by audioslave24 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 16:59:25 · 7 answers · asked by saraheminemgirl 1 in Family

would you ask them to wake up and leave or would you wait till the next morning?

2006-11-12 16:59:15 · 16 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

I am have these "cheating" dreams for three consecutive days.

2006-11-12 16:58:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating