Family & Relationships - 12 November 2006

My boyfriend and I are very happy. We spend a lot of time together and always get along.

He said something to me which I cannot understand. His quote "I really like you a lot, but it's something I don't want to elborate on right now"

Um -- ok, does it mean that he has feelings for me (maybe even love?) and feels that it's not the "right" time to tell me?

I mean, he's always complimenting me (always) - and just last night he said that he's "so relaxed and comfortable" when he's with me.

Today, on the phone he told me that he was thinking about me quite a bit.

So, what's your opinion? Be honest... just need your opinions on this. Thanks!

2006-11-12 16:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by smartandconfused 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you make it clear that you want your relationship to end and he needs to move out asap! Please keep in mind that I am dealing with an emotionally and mentally abusive man that I have a child with.

2006-11-12 16:16:45 · 23 answers · asked by nene 3 in Singles & Dating

TO ALL PARENTS
"I'll lend you, for a little while,
a child of mine,"He said
"For you to love while he lives
and mourn when he is dead.
It may be six or seven
years, or twenty-two or three, but will you
till I call him back,
take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you
and shall his stay be brief,
you'll have his lovely memories
as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
as all from earth return
but there are lessons taught down there
that I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over
in my search for teachers true,
and from the throngs that crown life's lanes,
I have selected YOU.
Now will you give him all your love
-not think the labor vain
nor hate me when I come to call
to take him back again."
I fancied that I heard them say
"Dear Lord, Thy will be done.
For all the joys thy child will bring
The risk of grief we'll run.
We will shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may---
And for the happiness we've known
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."
Written By: Edgar A. Guest
(from "All In a Lifetime"--Copyright, 1938)

2006-11-12 16:16:41 · 7 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

should i break up with her or not help me

2006-11-12 16:15:21 · 26 answers · asked by calvitoe 2 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl that I think is very cute and I want to be friends with her. I cant just walk up to her and start talking. I dont have any classes with her but I see her arround at lunch and in the halls a lot.

Please Help

2006-11-12 16:15:14 · 9 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3 in Friends

My gf always begged for me to open up and I finaly do but when it comes to her she shuts me out. She wont tell me when something is wrong shes starting to shut her friends out and they think its my fault when im being shut out too. It feels like shes not all here in this relationship and when I ask her if everything is ok she just says she doesnt know and when I ask her about it she just starts using sex to shut me up and after that shes cold again. I know her mom doesnt talk to her anymore cuz she wanted to live with her dad but she wont tell me what else is going on. What is going on with her? What should I do?

2006-11-12 16:15:02 · 5 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Singles & Dating

my and my boyfrend haves been going out for 2 days and he dose not say he loves me now he did but not know so help me plz

2006-11-12 16:14:35 · 13 answers · asked by jessica a 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been online with a guy for a week or so and we have become very close on the net. However he disappeared since last Friday. I sent him many on line messages but has so far not got any reply, what do I do? There is a time difference between us but it never bothered us before. Please help!!!!!

2006-11-12 16:14:13 · 21 answers · asked by Creativedesign 2 in Singles & Dating

HEARTPRINTS

Whatever our hands touch---
We leave fingerprints!
On walls, on furniture,
On doorknobs, dishes, books,
As we touch we leave our identity.

Oh please where ever I go today,
Help me leave heartprints!
Heartprints of compassion
Of understanding and love.
Heartprints of kindness and genuine concern.

May my heart touch a lonely neighbor
Or a runaway daughter,
Or an anxious mother,
Or, perhaps, a dear friend!

I shall go out today
To leave heartprints,
And if someone should say
"I felt your touch,"
May that one sense be...YOUR LOVE
Touching through ME.
(Author Unknown)
http://tamara-moore.memory-of.com/Candles.aspx

2006-11-12 16:13:35 · 3 answers · asked by katlady927 6 in Family

When I e-mail to the guys on a personal profile, sometimes I never hear from the guys, why is that, are they shy or do not want any part of yah!

2006-11-12 16:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If somebody your talking to/courting cancels 3 dates on you but went out on 2 other dates, do you just give up and start dating other women with no notice?

She says she likes me and can see us in a relationship, but she never gives me any real time with her, but we talk almost every day on the phone.

If you where her and knew I was dating SOMEBODY else what would you do?

Why keep turning down other girls when she isn't giving me any time with her....

2006-11-12 16:11:43 · 15 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Singles & Dating

i had sex with a friend. we were friends with benefits for a few weeks, but he said i was getting too close. now, admittedly, i do like him as more than a friend. but i would never push him into something. we are friends again, but had some adjustment aurguments because of the intimacy we once shared. i asked him if the sex was bad or something, and he said 'no, the sex was great, but i only think of you as a friend.' i said 'i know that, i never asked for promises, just a date when you're ready.'

now he doesn't want to touch me or hug me or anything. i asked him what the other girls he is talking to have that i don't and he said he had more in common with them because they have children, like he does. he said 'i do love you as a friend, even like a sister...' which seriously freaked me out.

i never thought a GUY would go akward in these situations.

was the sex bad for him, and he is just lying? or did he think he could devlop some feelings and decided to back off? or did he just lose interest because of these other girls?

2006-11-12 16:11:33 · 11 answers · asked by lickablecake123 1 in Singles & Dating

his got a child with the women actually what do i do. he said he loves me so much he doesnt want to let go of what weve been together i want him but i dont know what to do.

2006-11-12 16:10:53 · 2 answers · asked by Cooper 1 in Singles & Dating

After you've met someone you are attracted to, how long would it take you to ask them out?

2006-11-12 16:09:25 · 11 answers · asked by Nat R 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been talking to this guy for about 5 months and i am really into him. i have told him i feel, but when i asked him how he feel's about me he told me that he is not wanting to tell me cause he is not ready too. i understand that i can deal with that but the thing that i cant deal with is that when we talk on the phone he well say i got to get off the phone i'll call you back. well like two hours go by and he dosent then i call him and he dosent answer the phone so what should i think.
he also has me getting involved with his court stuff regaerding his daughter. so i have no idea what to think of this sittuation. please help me understand.......

2006-11-12 16:07:53 · 13 answers · asked by pizarrolyd24 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i have a girl friend and we have a date to the movies on tuesday. we are both 16. so i really want to kiss her during the movie but i have no idea how to! Can someone pls help me.

2006-11-12 16:07:44 · 12 answers · asked by jordan g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-12 16:07:01 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does any one knows how do I void a marrige with out going thru a divorce in the state of New York? It was never a real marrige.

2006-11-12 16:06:45 · 11 answers · asked by bluemind116 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf stays with me and he told me he was going to give me some money on the bills. well a whole week went by and nothing. i know he has it in the bank too. he also seen where i was struggling a little also. well as soon as i started acting like the relationship needs to be over then he says he will give me the money tommorrow. he knows i like to go ahead and pay the bills. why was he holding off so long. and he didnt forget either. he has done this before. its like he wants me to argue or beg for the money. he should pay cause he stays here too. should i just break up with him cause i have had this conversation before. he is 43 years old and knows better. i rather just not except the money and just tell him to leave. its too stressful asking someone over and over to pay their share when they know they should. is this a sign of control ?what do you think?

2006-11-12 16:06:29 · 20 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

Not too long ago, my significant other of 5 years left me. There were few to no warning signs that she wasn't happy, and she only expressed very strong feelings of commitment and love. Afterwards, she's said she wanted to be friends, etc. etc., but now she's the ice queen. I had just gotten a message from her recently right before the break up saying she missed me and loved me, but a week later she says she feels nothing. She didn't have any why's as to break up and without reason has resorted to saying "i don't love you, get over it" in just a few days. Ladies, I know you don't all do this, but if you can shed some light on this, it'd sure help.

2006-11-12 16:05:16 · 5 answers · asked by Che G 2 in Singles & Dating

My best friend had sex with my boyfriend of 3 years, while I was in the Hospital with my mother one weekend, I found out by my boyfriend telling me! I confronted her and she asked me to forgive her and that she wouldn't ever do it again. She is always saying that a guy shouldnt get in our friendship! Should I forgive her??

2006-11-12 16:04:16 · 10 answers · asked by Cherry 1 in Friends

my ex bf called me three times today...does he want me back.. does he miss me...whats the deal .i was at work so i really couldnt talk and he sorta got an attutide when i said i had to go.....i asked him to call me later and he goes "whatever" and hangs up all three times he asked me when i got off work

2006-11-12 16:03:27 · 8 answers · asked by Christopher A 1 in Singles & Dating

......I do. I hurt so much.

2006-11-12 16:03:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'v had 4 miscarriages now. One of them made it to week 21 and we gave birth to a stillborn baby girl. My husband seems to be losing his love for me. He really wanted children and made this clear to me when we married. Should I allow the relationship to disintegrate or should I try to save it? I love him deeply and sincerely and don't want to lose him, but I want him to be happy and have children if this is what it takes?

whenever I post this people always either say "get help from Doctors" or "Adopt"

My response to this is that we ARE getting help from doctors, each miscarriage has been found to have no cause, just bad luck, there is nothing wrong with me or husband, and as for adoption. This takes money and time (7 years wait for a healthy child and there is no guarantee) but we have signed up and have been waiting a year and a half.
I just want to know if I should leave the marriage. That is my question. What would you do if youre husband wasnt' happy with you anymore?

2006-11-12 16:03:04 · 25 answers · asked by stripedbook 5 in Marriage & Divorce

All the signs are there for him to like me, he always smiles at me and looks into my eyes, he watches me walk away. But when I told him that I liked him he said he doesn't want a relationship at the moment. He didn't say wether he did or did not like me. So I thought this meant he doesn't like me. The signs are still there though.... If he didn't like me wouldn't he just say so? And if he did like me wouldn't he say that he likes me and just doesn't want a relationship at the moment

2006-11-12 16:02:57 · 7 answers · asked by lil 4 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and I got in a fight because i'm not doing good in school (which he's paying for) and i told him he needs to push me more and he said he's too busy to push me that i'm immature and then all of a sudden he was going off on me and now we are over how can i get him back? If he really loved me wouldn't he just push me to do better?

2006-11-12 16:01:42 · 14 answers · asked by MelC 6 in Singles & Dating

I love my fiancee dearly and he is a good man but i notice that whenever he does something to remind me of my dad, I feel I want to run as far away from him as possible. My dad is a very cold and distant man who is very hard to please and it took me years to rise above the damage he had done to my self esteem growing up. If my fiancee agrees with anything that he does, or tried to see reason in his coldness, I feel that one day he may become like my dad and I cant handle that. I dont want my father to cause me to not have a loving relationship with my loving christain husband.

GOOD ADVICE ONLY PLEASE MALE OR FEMALE!!!

2006-11-12 16:01:36 · 8 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want a boyfriend or i think i dont need one?or i am insecure which is which?
im 19 , and i still have no boyfriend, im not bad looking in fact i get voted most of the time as one of the prettiest in school, but i cannot connect with men, shy in a way that i reply when they text me but i dont talk to them personally, and i really hate it when men just see me for the outside, usually i get pissed when men tell me im beautiful but they dont appreciate the fact that i write poetry and that i am the editor in chief of our paper, sometimes i feel i am too intelligent for men, and that most men are shallow, i have seen so many heartbreaking moments, and usually i dont see happy couples, like when my friends have boyfriends or when my sister has a boyfriend she still does not seem happy, they dont seem to be inspired, i was kind of hoping that women would be happy and inspired when they have boyfriends, but all i hear about is cheating or boring men,,,
is it ok if i will not entertain any suitors. i really like someone right now but i have no plans to pursue him

2006-11-12 16:01:21 · 10 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-12 16:01:00 · 4 answers · asked by ayanna d 1 in Friends

Okay..well I seeingthis guy for a few months, and one night, he caled for me to come over and hang out...so I ended up drinking alot, and I don't drink so my judgement was definetly not there...so the guy asks me what would I do if I got preganant by him...and I said it doens;t matter cause that;'s not going to happen, so when we got in the moment, again I was really drunk, I kept teeling him to wear a condom and he refused , and we had sex without a condom, I know it was mistake, I do know it was not responsible, and this is the only guy I have been with, so I'm not a hoe, but why would someone be so stupid that..what do you think?

2006-11-12 16:00:59 · 14 answers · asked by Laura the Capricorn 1 in Singles & Dating