My boyfriend and I are very happy. We spend a lot of time together and always get along.
He said something to me which I cannot understand. His quote "I really like you a lot, but it's something I don't want to elborate on right now"
Um -- ok, does it mean that he has feelings for me (maybe even love?) and feels that it's not the "right" time to tell me?
I mean, he's always complimenting me (always) - and just last night he said that he's "so relaxed and comfortable" when he's with me.
Today, on the phone he told me that he was thinking about me quite a bit.
So, what's your opinion? Be honest... just need your opinions on this. Thanks!
2006-11-12 16:17:37 · 18 answers · asked by smartandconfused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he means he likes you alot to the point where it can become love but he isnt reayd for that loev in his life yet
2006-11-12 16:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Lauryn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like from what you have written that he indeed does love you, but he might not be sure that you would be a ble to take such a revelation. Some men, believe it or not, say they love someone only when they really believe the other person feels it and even then, they will say it only when it is the most powerfully appropriate.
2006-11-13 00:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by P3ngu1n_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would give him some time. He may be trying to tell you howhe feels and finding the right words is hard. I wouldnt pressure him. He may also feel its going so well and doesnt want to ruin it by rushing into something more. He will say it when he is ready. Dont read to much into ..or assume anything. Act like normal and let nature take its course.
2006-11-13 00:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Smart, Sweety what i'm getting out of this, is he really likes you alot and enjoys his time with you, but he doesn't love you. I hope you haven had sex with this guy!! Why don't you ask him what he meant about really liking you alot,but doesn't want to elborate on it now. Hang around and see what he does. A Friend.
Clowmy
2006-11-13 00:28:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, I just had an epiphany thanks to your question. You see, guys often say very simple things and try to mask it in very complex and confusing ways. The operative word is 'try'. He is not really saying anything at all, obviously, because this quote bears no significance to your current situation with him. You are still dating, you still like him a lot, and now you are just racking your brain trying to figure out what the hell he meant by that back-handed comment. Part of the problem is that you are investing so much thought into his remark, and he probably just pulled it out of his butt when he was talking to you. Don't overthink, and judge your relationship with him by his actions, not by his words. Because, honestly, guys stink at communicating.
2006-11-13 00:26:35 · answer #5 · answered by Stephz0r S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is trying to get you to finish his sentence for him. In other words he most likely is in love with you but doesn't want to be rejected so hes hoping you will give him some sort of hint like, "oh, Ive been thinking of you all day too." So maybe give him a Little bit of a heads up on how you are going to respond when he opens himself up to you.
2006-11-13 01:07:14 · answer #6 · answered by lanna clause 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he just means he knows he likes you, but he's not sure why or he doesn't want to analyze too much regarding how he feels.
to be honest, if he REALLY likes you like he says, he SHOULD elaborate. he should be able to share his heart with you and let you know why you are attracting him. it is my opinion that when a man says he likes you but doesn't offer to give you the specifics, he is hiding something. if you really like someone, how can you NOT know why?
i don't think he loves you. if a guy is unsure with his feelings or thinks about you "quite a bit", that's not love.
2006-11-13 00:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man in a VERY similar relationship. I've been saying the exact same things to my girl. I'd say he definitely likes you quite a bit, but just doesn't want to say those three little words yet - he probably thinks you'd think it's too soon.
Don't sweat it - he digs ya!
2006-11-13 00:26:28 · answer #8 · answered by heywazzupdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a shy guy. Your a very lucky girl and all i can say is go with the flow and don't analyze this too much. when the time is right he will tell you how he feels. remember actions speak louder then words...
2006-11-13 00:23:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh, as females, we tend to overanalyze every little thing that others say (especially ones we are dating or interested in.) I wouldn't put too much thought into this, to be honest. Keep doing exactly what you're doing. He'll fess up eventually.
2006-11-13 00:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by Squishy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he loves you,but he doesn't want to be tied up yet,and maybe he still wants to given enough time to prove to you how much he loves you,he loves you but the surity is not 100%,but the feeling is mutual,coz it's obvious coz he's your bf already.being comfortable with each other is the best thing that will ever happen to lovers and couples.girl never ever try to demand things with your bf,maybe he's reffering to tight commitment.
2006-11-13 00:27:17 · answer #11 · answered by carmi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋