Enough is ENOUGH!?

Question

If somebody your talking to/courting cancels 3 dates on you but went out on 2 other dates, do you just give up and start dating other women with no notice?

She says she likes me and can see us in a relationship, but she never gives me any real time with her, but we talk almost every day on the phone.

If you where her and knew I was dating SOMEBODY else what would you do?

Why keep turning down other girls when she isn't giving me any time with her....

Answer 1

You answered your own question quite well..."Why keep turning down other girls when she isn't giving (you) any time with her?"

What she SAYS is one thing. What she DOES is another.

You can do better.

God be with you.

Answer 2

Hi,

If you say she has turned you down on 3 dates, Then maybe she actually does not know what she wants. I have been in a simillar scebario to you before. now i am not saying just give up whenever this happens, But at the same time, Do not be too pushy!

You say you talk to her on the phone every day, Well for now, Call her every second day instead. Or maybe twice a week. It sounds like she is playing the field at the moment. Do you really want to be played? It is not worth it in the long the run!

This is up to you, I have given you the best possible advice, I tried it and it worked, But not everything works for everyone.

Just think about it and make sure you know what you want as well.

Answer 3

Maybe you really like her and just can't bring yourself to give up. Just because you have that thing in your pants doesn't mean that you have to date a million women at once. It's perfectly fine for a guy to like one woman at one particualr time. In fact, I commend you for this. It's strange, in this scenario the tables are turned and it's the woman who is keeping her options open, not the man. I think you are very lucky to have met her, she seems intelligent and when your turn rolls around again, tell her how you feel. You say she gives you no real time with her, and man, I know how that feels. Part of the problem could be that you are waiting for that perfect, precise moment but honestly, it'll probably never come. You've just got to make it happen and pray that ninjas don't come crashing through your wall or the fire alarm doesn't sound when you start revealing your feelings to her. Oh, and one other thing: Don't just see other women to make her jealous. Then you will be hurting yourself and the new women in your life, and not the person you are intending to hurt. If you really like her and she rejects you, then give yourself time to heal. It's not wimpy at all.

Answer 4

Make a date with her and then cancel on her, tell her that you are going to a date with someone else. She will get jealous, and you will get your date...and maybe some sex...girls are sooo jealous..use the force to your advantage

Answer 5

Sounds like you need to start dating other girls..

Answer 6

There are to many good women in this world to waste yourself on one that obviously does not care about your feeling. Move on and start a Good relationship with someone who will appreciate you. Good luck

Answer 7

Well if i were you i would go out with other girls..play the field alittle bit and maybe when she realizes that she does want to be with you and you aren't going to sit around and wait for her so maybe she should get her act together and figure out if she wants to be with you or not..don't wait for her

Answer 8

It prolly means that the other guy she is dating is trying harder. Women will often choose the man who is more persistant...don't give up if ya really like her, or, just move on to catch another fish/

Answer 9

if she cancels 3 in a row, yet is dating others, i think it's clear that she's trying to avoid you..

Answer 10

Date somebody else already ! LIVE YOUR LIFE AND STOP ASKING QUESTIONS THAT ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER !