My gf always begged for me to open up and I finaly do but when it comes to her she shuts me out. She wont tell me when something is wrong shes starting to shut her friends out and they think its my fault when im being shut out too. It feels like shes not all here in this relationship and when I ask her if everything is ok she just says she doesnt know and when I ask her about it she just starts using sex to shut me up and after that shes cold again. I know her mom doesnt talk to her anymore cuz she wanted to live with her dad but she wont tell me what else is going on. What is going on with her? What should I do?
2006-11-12 16:15:02 · 5 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
always remember a relationship is a two way street. tell her a problem shared is a problem halved
2006-11-12 16:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's living with her parents, my guess is that she's too young to be having sex...acting like an adult with immature emotion and life experiences. Not much you can do...seems youre probably just a kid too. Maybe give her some space to work out whatever problems she's having at home. Sex isnt gonna cure either of you. Peace.
2006-11-13 00:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to her that she is very important to you and you want to eb included in her life
it seems like something strange and bad is going on to me
does she come forma n abusive fmaily?
i would just make her feel loved and cared about
after that all you can do is give ehr time
and when she offers sex, you can tell her thats not what you want from her
just always be there for her, maybe someday shell open up
2006-11-13 00:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by bionca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the girls don't want to tell their boyfriends what's going on with them? Because they don't want their boyfriends to be upset like they do. Your girlfriend might has a reason that can't let u know. She act like no thing's going on with her. But deep inside her heart's full of pain. Why don't you tell that you really want to help her to get through this problem? Wish you good luck!
2006-11-13 00:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with her, hold her tight ask her whats wrong. chance are she just is afraid to open up or doesnt want to be judged or just needs somebody to be there and say. ""its okay dont worry""
2006-11-13 01:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by Linneas Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋