i have no idea if this guy is really into me or he's just playing with my emotions?

Question

i have been talking to this guy for about 5 months and i am really into him. i have told him i feel, but when i asked him how he feel's about me he told me that he is not wanting to tell me cause he is not ready too. i understand that i can deal with that but the thing that i cant deal with is that when we talk on the phone he well say i got to get off the phone i'll call you back. well like two hours go by and he dosent then i call him and he dosent answer the phone so what should i think.
he also has me getting involved with his court stuff regaerding his daughter. so i have no idea what to think of this sittuation. please help me understand.......

Answer 1

if he says he isnt ready to tell yo how he feels that means he knows, therefore is withholding information, which is a form of lying...which means get rid of him...

Answer 2

If you have a good history and have a choice then why would you wanna be with a guy who has a daughter? This relationship is a lot more complicated then normal couple relationship, you need to think about couple years in the future if you married him. He has a daughter, so which mean he has a lot of experience in relationship game; he got off the phone and didn't call you back, doesn't mean he is playing you, because he may love his daughter a lot and who knows if you are gona be a good mom, and he may kinda want you and then feeling vulnerable and then back off. If you see a ghost before, don’t tell me you are not afraid of the dark. My advice is put your rushing to rest and both of you will think a lot more clearer, give him and yourself some time ^_^

Answer 3

Hmmz i wager my boyfriend matches my description of my ideal guy: tall, athletically narrow, brown hair, sleepy brown eyes, lovable snort and smile, listens to me even as i'm less than pressure, likes to cuddle, likes hugging and kissing each and each and every of the time, likes my artwork, likes music (and is fantastically knowledgeable about it), likes my advice that he develop sideburns, and is mostly an particularly cool guy. yet he'd extremely get inebriated AND eat pizza at the same time than only do one or the different lol

Answer 4

Ok hun i'm going to straight.....get out of this what ever it is relationship. Don't waste you time and effort on some one who is not falling over you and making you smile every morning you wake up. Next time you talk to him keep it short and sweet 10 min max and then he will wonder, it is always good to keep men on there toes. If he is not asking to do these things without a dinner invitation i would be saying see ya.....

Answer 5

first of all, how old are you? hopefully at least in ur 20's or else you dont need to be anywhere neara guy that has a kid let alone DRAMA with the kid! second of all, DO NOT CALL HIM. if he's interested he will eventually call you and he'll like you more if HE has to do the chasing, guys dont like clingy girls, they like to be the ones pursueing

Answer 6

He's probably still is emotionaly attached to his daughters momma so I would reccomend seeing other people If he cares he will contact you if not than move on.

Answer 7

He not playing u jz wanna b fren v u only...

Answer 8

if he was into you, you wouldn't feel played with. He's not the guy for you. Don't do his paperwork anymore- he's a big boy and can do it himself.

Answer 9

YOU NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONG UNTIL HE GET HIS
SELF TOGETHER, THE WORST THING IS TO HAVE
FEELING FOR SOMEONE THAT DOES NOT FEEL AS
YOU DO. THE ONLY PERSON WILL BE HURT IS YOU
TIME TO LEAVE HIM ALONG. IF IT MEANT TO HAPPEN
IT WILL. BUT DONT WASTE YOUR TIME.

Answer 10

He is playing with you or he is an idiot, either way, you need to leave.