we have been dating for 4 years now
2006-11-12 17:05:38 · 19 answers · asked by takinbaksunday05 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not Really in love...
2006-11-13 08:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by Ms.Capulet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOTHING! Youve just been together for so long. Ive been there. Just remember what attracted you to him in the beginning. You guy will be fine. Some people get into aslump and its perfectly normal...for a short time.
2006-11-13 01:08:13 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deep inhibitions. You need therapy and possibly some psychology books. I had this problem too, I know it's horrible. If you're serious about fixing it, you really need to make an effort to understand what's going on in your head unconsciously. I reccomend Freud.
2006-11-13 01:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by Amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to leave the comfort provided by him & look for greener pastures. PS: Don't stick around with a guy for any length of time if you have any doubts. No guy is better than the wrong guy.
2006-11-13 01:10:18 · answer #4 · answered by Judith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not as hottier than like before, do you think of some one else to disturb your enterest that reduce your feelings on your bf? Or did he changed his behavior and he treated you unjustly? like if he cheated you?
Think what wrongs with your relationship and make over what it lacks?
2006-11-13 01:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just be bored, but if you are taking any medications it can ruin your desire, especially anti-depressants. Ask your doctor or look up the medications you are taking for the side effects.
2006-11-13 01:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to leave him and move on then do that bcoz the passion has gone or otherwise try to devise ways to aflame the passion again,dress naughty, play a lot and then do it.it really works
2006-11-13 01:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by vish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boring sex or you've just become too comfortable in the relationship and quit putting out.
2006-11-13 01:10:46 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have the same feelings about him. Do not string him along, you need a new boyfriend. Don't waste any time doing this.
2006-11-13 01:08:21 · answer #9 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dun give up..Talk to him and try to jazz up your sex life. Go for a trip together or check into a hotel for a change...
2006-11-13 01:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably getting bored or hes not doing something right. And it may not be sexually not something right, but mentally. like he may not do enough special things, or theres something that may have been bugging you and so that's making it harder for you to want to do it.
2006-11-13 01:10:10 · answer #11 · answered by sun drenched 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋