HELP ME
2006-11-12 17:09:26 · 26 answers · asked by calvitoe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hit them both on the head with a hammer. when they come back to their senses and stop fighting, hope that they both don't realize at the same time what a jerk you are and leave you at the same time.
2006-11-12 17:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they just friends, or more than friends? If they are just friends, you need to talk to them about their behavior. Set some separate times to see them. But if they can't stop fighting, lesson your time with them. They have serious issues to work out. If on the other hand, they are both your love interest, you got the issue problem. Really I can see why they are fighting over you. But love is no game. Pick one now! This doesn't make you more of a man. Just a selfish one.
2006-11-12 17:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need help but in a different area. Are you sure it is not an ego boosting situation in which you feel elevated that two human beings are attracted to you (and that is a natural thing to feel good when we know we are center of attraction); You should have been very clear to begin with and could have avoided this ugly situation in which one person is bound to get hurt. Take the responsibility and spend time with yourself. Donot delay it as it will cause more complicaitons. Feel good for lots of other reasons which I am sure you have plenty of. Be nice and polite and explain the situation to your friends. In your mind if you have preference for any one of them; be direct and firm but avoid being rude as breaking heart is still a sin. Hope you can get out of this situation and let others have their peace of mind and heart. A lesson is learnt through these experiences. Wouldn't you agree:)
2006-11-12 17:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by qualittee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Calvitoe, This whole mess is your fault. You need to pick the girlfriend you like the most and send the other down the road. Never do this again.I call that cheating in my book.
Clowmy
2006-11-12 17:16:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ought to merely sit down and have not have been given any acquaintances instead of those acquaintances. I had an identical situation in college. you're nevertheless attempting to discover your click. yet they ain't feelin' you and additionally you shouldn't tension it. connect some after college classes and different activities and attempt to fulfill new people. That way, you be attentive to which you and that person could have some thing in easy.
2016-12-14 06:16:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a question. well then talk to them like a friend..there are plenty of things you can do like find a girlfriend besides those two or you can say i'm really not interested in neither of you
ok friends last longer than some temporal relationship anyway
2006-11-12 17:12:00 · answer #6 · answered by cristal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
none of them. even if you pick ONE, they'll keep fighting and one with ruin the other's life and soon thereafter your relationship too. if you're as hot and good as they're fighting for you should have no problem finding another girl that has nothing to do with either one.
2006-11-12 17:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to step in, make a decision, don't let them continue to hurt each other. If you don't know which one you wanna be with, their fighting is futile anyway.
2006-11-12 17:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by elthe3rd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they know about one another then neither one will be around long. Girls are pretty territorial when it comes to their guy and if they aren't you ain't going to be theirs long. Probably should just pick one or none and go on.
2006-11-12 17:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by john316tdh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two girlfriends?...
it would've been better if you just chose the one you got along with more..
well.. talk it out i guess... before things get worse..
fighting is just going to make things awful.. really.. this sounds cliche but it really is true
2006-11-12 17:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by redsanity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋