Could my boyfriend be talking to another girl??

Question

I love my boyfriend, and he says he loves me...He says I'm the best thing that's ever happened to him and that I'm everything he has been looking for...(also that he wants to marry me) But, I just don't get why he calls me sooo late, EVERY SINGLE DAY even on WEEKENDS. There's even days he doesn't call me... The earliest he's called is 10......I'm starting to think he's talking to another girl....Should I trust him??What are some signs of him cheating???

I would really appreciate it if you could help me out....

Answer 1

You don't mention actually going anywhere with this boyfriend? Is this an internet relationship? You only mention phone calls. Phone calls alone do not constitute a relationship.

If so, he's married judging by the behaviour, and calling you after the wife has gone to bed or something similar.

When he doesn't call you - well, surely you can work that out for yourself!

If on the other hand, you do go out with him and go on normal dates and know where he lives and have met his parents - i.e. a normal relationship - then you are being way too clingy to expect him to call every day. Get a life.

Answer 2

WOW sometimes he doesn't call you for an ENTIRE day? OMG how HORRIBLE for you! You need to stop being so possesive. Ok so he doesn't call until later at night. Did you ever think about asking him if he could call earlier? As for not calling you every single day, get over yourself. He's not a lap dog, he gets to live his own life without having to check in with you every day. If he has a job that COULD be a reason he can't call you. Not many employers ALLOW their employees To make constant personal phone calls on the job. He also gets to spend time with his GUY friends. If you're expecting to marry this guy I suggest you quit trying to strangle him with you possesiveness or he is going to start doing more than TALK to other girls

Answer 3

If you really think he is talking to another girl then something is up!! Sometimes its hard to believe what come out of guys mouths is true. I had a boyfriend cheat on me with 4 other girls while we were together...but the thing is when people told me I didn't believe them cause me and him were always together. I thought they were trying to separate us but then he stopped calling like he used to and sometimes not even call me at all and then when he would call it would be really late! So If I was u I would try to find out before things get serious.

Answer 4

men are sneaky, good luck trying to catch him if he is. but when it comes to cheating, men are not that smart. women are. use your women powers! have a talk with him. ask him is he talking to someone else. look at his reaction. besides he's been calling you back some nights real late, thats not right. something is going on. and anyways talk is cheap. does he really love you, or is he saying that? and if he did what is he doing that's so important that damn near last to the wee hours of the morning. usually ur first instinct is right. so have an open and honest conversation, see what he says, and see how you feel.

Answer 5

But why don't u call him before 9 or 10 and talk to him about it. There could be a reason for it. Does he work nights. If he don't want u to have his # then he might be married or have someone else then.

Answer 6

First ask him if he could call you earlier / more often cause you like talking to him. You two should set the expectations or tell him what you want and see if he wants to do that. Most likely, he probably doesn't know its a problem that he calls so late. And he probably doesn't know you want him to call everyday.

So here's what I recommend:
1) Ask him if he can call you earlier and give some reasons why you want him too (like 'i know we usually talk for a while and I dont' want it to get too late and cut off our conversations', etc).
2) Ask him if he minds talking everyday? Just tell him you want to just see how his day went sometimes or you want to tell him about your day and that it doesn't need to be long conversations, just quick updates is fine. If he does mind, then maybe ask him how often he wants to talk and set up times to talk.

If he is unwilling to talk or doesn't want to talk so much, you then need to ask yourself if that's okay with you or if you want to be in a relationship that you can talk to them when YOU want to, not just when he wants to. You have to both compromise.

Answer 7

hey actually i shud not appreciate ur thot but sorry to tel u that u can b rite.the best way is to ask him what do he do aft cuming home and can he cal u up a bit early,ty manipulating thngs so that he cals u up early and if then he takes out time in b/w then it is confirmed that yes he is tlking to some1 else too,or jst keep calling him in a half an hr or so to chk if is phn is on waiting or busy,bcoz putting a check is necessary otherwise these guys keep drifting

Answer 8

talk to him n tell him how u feel. do u talk to him during the day at all? maybe hes just busy. Just make sure u keep ur guards up just in case....
ps. read the book, hes just not dat into you. that will help u answer ur question

Answer 9

Have you asked him about this? In your mind what will calling early do for you. Maybe he is just trying act like he is busy. I would just talk to him about this. I he truely loves you then you have nothing to worry about.

Answer 10

it means you guys aren't all that serious and he doesn't like you all that much if he can't squeeze in time for you. dump him. He probably has a girl on the side, or maybe a real girlfriend and you are that girl he has in the back burner.