We’ve been together for four months now and he’s been on the base [he’s in the military] for most of the time so needless to say we don’t see each other every day. Anyway he’s coming home for Christmas soon and Im way nervous that he’s changed or I have or maybe Im not good enough anymore or maybe he wont love me like he says he does what if he rethinks everything? I want everything to be okay, do you think these are irrational fears?
2006-11-12 17:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by signalfirst 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it is perfectly reasonable to be nervous. Just think....he may be feeling exactly the same way! Perhaps you should voice your concerns to him! Communication is the key to everything in a relationship!
2006-11-12 17:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-13 01:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait and find out, so calm down, I doubt if he has changed unless he has been in combat, and that could have changed him. His love for you is still there I am sure, so don't worry. He needs you to stand beside him and give him love and TLC.
2006-11-13 01:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by shardf 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he has changed and for the better..
Take my word for it.. 4 months on a base and no woman he's going to be a horny dog..
2006-11-13 01:18:47 · answer #4 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be calmed and thing will be as easier...Nothing is wrong as long as nobody changed.....Good luck and be happy...
2006-11-13 01:15:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋