I've been burned so many times in relationships so I try to be cautious but we've been dating barley three weeks and we've already discussed having sex! we were supposed to a couple of time and then things got in the way, but now theres a bunch of drama, and he foudn out I lied to him about something really minor but still a lie I dont know if he's going to forgive me! I like him so so much I wont say I love him but down the road if we stay together I think I WILL love him! we're so good together and I hate to be away from him I cant stand the thought of him leaving me over me making a stupid mistake, he's a recovering drug addict too so he cant have too much drama in his life, I dont want to compromise his recovery I know that his recovery comes first and I want it to be that way! but I dont want to lose him either :( any insight?
2006-11-12 17:17:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I try to remain independant not acting too clingy cuz I knwo he doesn't liek that stuff, and as far as sex, I've onlky had sex once and I was drunk it was the worst experience of my life and I really care about this guy so I know it's early but we want to and I think it's ok since we're both adults now
2006-11-12 17:22:10 · update #1
3 weeks did you say?? you already sound like a drama queen if you guys are a new couple and already have issues. It's not going to work if you lay a bad foundation
2006-11-12 17:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is be honest and open with him. He needs respect and going behind his back and talking to everyone except him tells him he's not very important to you.
Just look at it this way...if it was the other way around, what would you want him to do?
2006-11-13 01:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont have sex right away. Make him prove that he wants you.
Otherwise you will end up being used.
2006-11-13 01:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by misjes2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what? it may be really hard but- what you need to do is to tell him pretty much exactly what you just wrote to everyone here.
2006-11-13 01:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by signalfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! you are so enduring with your love for that guy. I admire you for that. But please don't be engrossed so much and give attention to yourself too.
2006-11-13 01:36:06 · answer #5 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT GIVE UP AND DONT LIE NO MORE
2006-11-13 01:19:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP! think about it
2006-11-13 01:19:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋