meet this one girl on the internet. she didnt like me at first and deiced that i was parnoid and left me at the time well i keep leaving her messages and she finaly take to me. She told me that her family was in to poltics and her family was rich. well we fell inlove and then months later she told me everything abouy her life and family. i went out and meet her anute, uncle and grandma and they were nice to me and they had a big house. i also talk to her mom and she loves me also she always takes my last name. She also talk to one of my friends and they all say that she really loves me and i love her to death.. she wants me to live in the philippines and now i am just confuesd if she really loves me. she will not take money from me even if i send it. also her friendster she will not keep the testi that i add to her.I AM IN THE US ARMY AND FOR ME TO LIVE THERE I WOULD HAVE TO GET OUT OF THE ARMY. I HAVE 3 YEARS LEFT.and i forgot she has sent me money about 332 dollar when i need it
2006-11-12 17:46:45 · 4 answers · asked by masterharmz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey,
Why ruin a good thing?
2006-11-12 17:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by crash 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did she ask you to send money? If her family is rich then she shouldn't need to ask for your help. If however, you gave her money willingly as a gift without her asking for it, then how could you not expect her not to take it? What were you trying to do? Testing her love for you? How many people can say no to that?What is wrong with accepting gifts from her boyfriend? Especially when you also accepted 332dollar she sent you?Is this a double standard? As for relocation, If you love each other, both of you have to decide on living in a country where it is the most beneficial for the both of you, financial and career wise. As for whether you will adapt to the different lifestyles and cultures, love will conquer all as long as you are together. Good luck.
2006-11-13 02:10:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi im a filipina! anyways, i think that your girl and her family loves you so much. Don't mind the status and the financial thingy just focus on the love in your relationship. Keep strong and accept each other for what your weaknesses are. Enjoy every good things. Take things lightly and have a heart to heart talk. Be both honest and accept whatever decisions you've come up. Good luck! .. :D
2006-11-13 01:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by ask 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not of the same culture, I would say it would be hard. They are really into material things and money, don't kid yourself. I would run like heck and not get involved with them. A relative married one and she was all peaches and cream, but not the real thing. She was poison and selfish. Just run, I would not do anything. If you are from the USA, find a girl there. These can reel you in but when they get you, they change.
2006-11-13 01:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by shardf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋