I have seen this guy twice now once I when I met him at the pub and then the second time I messaged him to go and hear a band in a few nights time, and he asked me what I was doing that night and he came over my sisters place for a few drinks, I ran into him again at the pub last night and he invited me back to his place for a few drinks but I couldnt go I had to relieve my babysitter, I messaged him and said he could come to my place for a few drinks and he didnt answer the message. After I first saw him he told me he would give me a call but so far I have initiated all the contact, I don't know whether to keep messaging him or wait for him to contact me
2006-11-12 17:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by bjwelb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-11-14 09:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to be rude or anything, but if you initiate all the "dates" then you really need to reevaluate. Give him time to call if he does then maybe he is just going along. Nothing wrong with you doing all the work but if he's really interested then he needs to do some work also.
2006-11-12 17:44:29 · answer #2 · answered by Joseph P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go.
If he is interested, he will get back to you. If he is not polite enough, or competent enough to work his phone, then you really don't need him.
2006-11-12 17:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple solution. If you love someone let her/him go if he/she comes back he/she is yours if not he/she wasn't.
if the guy doesn't care what your problems are he can never love you.
2006-11-12 17:46:05 · answer #4 · answered by J@W@D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, you blew it. You should have performed oral on him when you had the chance. forget him and keep looking.
2006-11-12 17:44:47 · answer #5 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go... if he is really interested with you, he will call you back
2006-11-12 17:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by LoNeLy ChiLD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
very doubtful
2006-11-12 17:41:53 · answer #7 · answered by sandy k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋