Should you date people who you work with?

Question

We may not be working together much longer, since I'm changing jobs in a few months, but still....

Answer 1

Yes and no!!
Are you prepared for everyone at work to nose into your personal life? Are you prepared to have your manager confront you if your partner is off sick/late etc?
Do you think you can work together after having a disagreement?

I met my husband at work over 4 years ago, I had my manager askjing me why he was off sick and colleagues asking personal questions but we made it work, if you are both prepared to have people at work poke their noses in then go for it. If not then it is best to wait until you have started your new job

Answer 2

I would generally say no, but as you are leaving soon then I don't think it's such an issue.

However, I wouldn't let everyone know about your relationship, especially your employer who may not be too impressed. I know of some organisations where if they find out two people are having a relationship, one of them will be moved to another office or will have to leave.

Also, the other people you work with may find it a little uncomfortable.

So as a rule I would say probably best not to date colleagues, but if you really want to then keep it discreet.

Answer 3

many a good relationship is formed at work I would say that its normal to find a decent partner though work I've know of many couples now living together,some times the relationship fails I consider this the hardest fact,it takes a special person to keep on working in the same area it's usual for one will find another job

Answer 4

Generally it's not best that you date people in the workplace because it can generally lead to gossip, drama, tensions if you guys breakup, etc. But it can work and it does work alot of times as long as it's discussed about how you two will handle the relationship in the workplace (like if you two will publicly show affection in the office)

But in your case, since you are leaving then you shouldn't really care. But you should talk to him about it cause it might affect his job if he's going to stay there (like if people start gossiping or drama, he's going to be stuck dealing with it after you leave)

Answer 5

Yes you must..... It is the only thing that makes life enjoyable where I work. We spend hours gossiping about the people who date each other. It will be so enjoyable for your bosses who will use your relationship as an excuse for every time you or him appear to be stressed due to your job. NO DON'T EVER DO IT - it is dating hell

Answer 6

Ironically, work is just about the only place you will meet decent guys. And most of us spend all our waking hours at work. At least you already know two things.. he has a job, and he has similar interests. I would go for it, but keep it on the low down. dont want things getting awkward at work.

Answer 7

I'm sorry but going on your previous question I would say that if you did date someone from the office then stories will start to be told about you amongst your work colleagues, could you put up with that? it's worth thinking about

Answer 8

Generally a stupid idea, but hey, life is too short to be sensible!

It might just be that you meet your future life-partner in work. What should you do - give up your future happiness because it's supposed to be a bad idea? I don't think so.

If you are going to be moving jobs, then it doesn't sound like a major drama to me.

Answer 9

hey,idont think its a brilliant idea coz that may affect your working relationship later when things go bad. are u sure u dont wwant a stable relationship coz relationships at work usually end up as just affairs

Answer 10

Since your going to be leaving anyway, yes it can't hurt anything. If you weren't I say no, because if it doesn't work out it would be very uncomfortable for the both of you.