OK... the thing is during one drunken night,i ended up having sex with a guy.I am not with that guy now (and i never want to be coz i later found out wat a jerk he was) and i am not pregnant.
I did tell my mom that i had been drinking with my friend and called a couple of guys over.She was quite horrified and made me promise that i would never do that again. i wont.I also never wanna have sex again until im married(is that hypocritical of me?). anyways, im feeling really guilty abt what i have done. i always tht that i wud save my virginity until i got married.(obviously THATS not happening anymore) It was one act of stupidity. Should i tell my mom, or shud i live with the guilt and the consequences of my actions? i know it will hurt her and horrify her.But she is my mother...... plz be kind..... this guilt is killing me.
2006-11-12 21:52:44 · 5 answers · asked by Sunrise 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her; and stand firm in your resolve to wait until you are married. It is too bad that you had to learn the hard way that alcohol and casual sex are not all they are cracked up to be. It sounds like you are basically a good girl. Tell your mom, she will help you get through this.
2006-11-12 22:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sister Christian 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why tell her. It was 1 mistake and it seems to me that you regret it. It is in the past. Now you can learn from this mistake and don't do it again. Your mom is only going to be disappointed in you and make you feel more guilty.
2006-11-13 06:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by kitten 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should confide in your mother....IF she can handle it. If she's gonna freak out, keep it to yourself and quit worrying about it. All women make multiple mistakes.
2006-11-13 07:29:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you are really close to her then yeah u can tell her if you want but i wouldnt. n about savin ur virginity til ur married.. never g0nna happen.. its a new generation everyone's done it.. never say NEVER even tho u lost it n feel that your never gonna do it again til your married i bet you that wont happen either... dont feel guilty you are you and u do wat u want with your life and your actions are up to you.
2006-11-13 06:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by y0ur Face 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
dont tell and be careful next time , dont go with that any more , be good girl now n then
2006-11-13 06:12:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋