me and my boyfriend been together just alittle bit over a year. kissing is great, but there are times when kssing doesnt seem enough, we want more,but were not ready for sex, is there soemthing we can do in between, more than kissing but less than sex?
2006-11-12 21:26:42 · 15 answers · asked by winky479 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Assuming you are looking for stages between 'kissing' and 'intercourse', there is plenty of room for exploration. Petting has been mentioned - on top of clothing, under clothing, partial undressing - and is a good place to start. As things progress, manual (hand) and oral (mouth) stimulation can be worked in.
The golden rule is keep an open line of communication, especially if things get hot and heavy or go beyond what is comfortable. Also, just because you've said things can go a little further, make it known you don't mean "in the next 30 seconds" - this is one area where slow works well. Finally, you can back it up if it goes somewhere you're not ready for.
This isn't a cut and dry area, so my last word is this. Know what you're ready for and know what you are prepared for. You are in for some (hopefully pleasant) suprises, but that's human physiology for you. Just laugh it off, and cuddle up while you recover...
Play nice... Play safe... Have fun...
2006-11-12 22:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Groping, stroking and rubbing in the areas that feel good... Use only your hands as oral also counts as sex. While he has pants on, move a hand up his inner thigh, and gently brush over the area, maybe doing so again with more pressure... do it progressively until you're ready to go inside the said pants... Same counts for him. Tell him where it feels good, and let him tell you as well. You'll actually be able to satisfy each other this way without having any sex.
2006-11-13 05:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Petting can be a great thing. It's less than sex and way more than kissing. But be carefull because it may bring you the wish to have sex - it's a very exciting "game". But if you have good self-control, i would not worry.
2006-11-13 05:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by larissa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if first base doesn't seem to be enough at times try to round for second. nothing wrong with abit of petting or exploration. but it is up to the two of you what to do if you're not ready to have sex yet. eventually things will lead you forward in the heat of the moment.
2006-11-13 05:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can have oral sex, which is always fun. my advise: you each should trim nice and close to the skin, makes it funner and a little easier to do your first time.
also, you can try hand stimulation on him, and he can try finger stimulation on you.
good luck with your sexual adventures, LOL.
the main thing is, make sure you are comfortable and you keep open communication. tell him what feels good and what doesn't feel good and vise versa for him - learn each other's bodies. half the fun is finding what you and your partner find enjoyable.
2006-11-13 05:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Petting
2006-11-13 05:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dry sex is a popular idea and like everyone's going on about, oral sex fits the bill. I'm guessing anal might not be your thing, but fingering and handj*bs can get you places.
2006-11-13 05:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by yasiru89 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing means everything. If you are kissing a girl, it means you must do sex and also enjoy intercourse. You have asked the stage .More than kiss but less than sex. I think more than kissing is just oral sex. You can enjoy sex. You can ejaculate and have sex. There is no other point .
2006-11-13 05:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
touch each other with warmth and foreplay should be the best, as long as you know what you want it is not going to tempt you into sleeping together. enjoy
2006-11-13 05:35:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lorato m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing jumping jacks.
2006-11-13 05:45:57 · answer #10 · answered by Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋