PLease help, i'm desperately in love with my gynae and no matter what i do i cant seem to get over him. I find myself making uneccessary appointments just to see him. He's always nice to me and his eye contact is really good. Sometimes I feel like something is there, other days he's all about his job. Should I make my move? The other thing is he's a lot older than I am not sure whether he likes younger women or not. I'm desperate...
2006-11-12 21:16:25 · 20 answers · asked by puppylove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's a professional who trained at making ladies feel comfortable. Sounds like a bit of an unhealthy infatuation. Maybe your next boyfriend should be made aware of your needs, to be treated with dignity and respect.
2006-11-12 21:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone! You will loose a good trusting doctor/patient relationship and it is hard to find a good gynae that you feel at ease with! It is his job to make you feel comfortable - especially in that kind of situation.
I get crushes on my doctors all the time! It is only because that they are so kind and understanding and you are in a vulnerable position and he is the closest thing at that time - do you follow?
Its like at school when you get crushes on the teachers!
Take it easy and just be greatefull that you have a good gynae!!!!
2006-11-12 21:25:29 · answer #2 · answered by fifi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY!!!!
what a situation.... check if he has a ring on his finger first... then make sure you can get a new doctor.... then make your move! i would wait until you have your pants back on though!!!
but hey... doctors are always quite comforting... especially gynae's, they have to put you at ease....
i would maybe try and find out what pub he drinks in or something and go along and flirt....you can always blame it on the alcohol then!
2006-11-12 21:19:35 · answer #3 · answered by Helen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds such as you're on no account soft along with your GYN, so i'd certainly seem into yet another care service. i'm a super fan of midwives. i'd certainly commence asking around and interviewing midwives. I had a VBAC approximately 2 years in the past with a midwife attending. It replaced right into a great adventure, and that i extraordinarily propose midwives or maybe homebirth for low threat females desirous to VBAC. in my view, i'd detect a midwife, and ask her if there is any way that she (or maybe your husband) will cope with discussing pass of care along with your GYN so which you do no longer would desire to fret approximately chatting with him anymore. somewhat, you do no longer would desire to unavoidably say something to him - you are able to only detect a clean service and pass on - yet whilst there are any scientific information that would desire to be transferred, you will discover if your new service will cope with that.
2016-12-10 08:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back.
He sees hundreds of women a week.
You only see him in the office and never see his home where he might be happily married with kids.
It is a typical infatuation with a doctor.
It happens all the time.
Find a guy your age.
Rate him on his maturity and kindness.
You will be happier.
2006-11-12 21:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, it's is JOB to be nice to you. If you did make a move there's no way he could respond due to a potential law suit if something ever went wrong, not to mention ethically. Stop seeing him and get another doctor.
2006-11-12 21:21:27 · answer #6 · answered by Aeryn Sun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah, k. then will you allow us to tell u? that's not love ur talking about, that's obsession. he's only nice cuz he's job requires him to b. concerning the eye contact, he's only showing u who's the boss. that doesn't mean things will go between u, cuz older ppl require more than just sex.
k k k k, tell him and when everyone's gonna laugh at you, don't ask me y.
2006-11-12 21:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by James Blond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone in his job has to be able to develop a good rapport with women. There may be something in it, but there may not be.
Maybe try to get the conversation round to recent films and, if he says he hasn't seen it ask him if he'd like to go with you!
2006-11-12 21:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make an appointment to see him and leave a rolled up note where you know he'll find it, he might get the message and you'll be in the perfect position to get the relationship off to a flying start!
2006-11-12 21:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by crownose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it he is just being professional & polite and you will cause embarrassment and then will have to find someone new
Good Luck
2006-11-12 21:19:57 · answer #10 · answered by JEFF K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋